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alwaystryin |
alwaystryin replied April 30, 2009 11:18 PM
This is the most profoundly great way to say what needs to be said. And coming from you, people should take notice and of course let's hear what everyone thinks!
markjohn1 replied May 1, 2009 4:16 AM Thanks. I appreciate the cudos. The bottom line is this. To live with this disease and not let it run your life it needs to know you have no fear of whatever it brings you in life. Whether it is a blood low or high you go on and even if you frighten it for one hour it is in fear of you now. Every time it rears its head you get it in check with fear.
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cyncyn replied May 1, 2009 2:15 AM
this reminds me of a commerical i've seen. patty labelle saying, "diabetes doesn't have me, i have diabetes". my son who was diagnoised recently with Type II, now that he knows, he is eating better, feeling better. said," Now i have a good reason to eat right. he doesn't think of it, as a disease, he thinks of it, as just doing things right. pretty good outlook! |
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cakeybakes replied May 1, 2009 2:45 AM
What a great way to look at such a frightening thing! I have to make sure and tell myself this from now on. It's nice to know that I have that much power over something that I previously thought I could never control (slowly learning it's all in my hands). I HATE diabetes because I know it will take my life some day (hopefully not for 40+ years). I LOVE diabetes because I am taking better care of myself and teaching my family to take care of themselves too. I FEAR it because I know how easy it is to lose control. I think now I have to make it FEAR ME because I know how to control it! (Now, I just have to practice more self-discipline.)
markjohn1 replied May 1, 2009 4:19 AM Thank you. It just seems to work for me and others I have told about it. I love having this discussion with people who seem to be down and just have lost faith.
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Mom and boys |
Mom and boys replied May 1, 2009 1:18 PM
Last edited 10 months ago I love diabetes because I am not letting it control me I am controlling it! I want to add, diabetes is only part of me and I will not let it control me or stop me from doing things I want to do.
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Latte Lady |
Latte Lady replied May 1, 2009 2:02 PM
I am still new in this arena, but at the moment I do not fear this disease. I do totally respect it as my first 'real' job was on a diabetic ward in a hospital. So I actually saw and helped treat what could happen.
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Anonymous replied May 1, 2009 2:41 PM
Yeah I do fear it. It has already destroyed my life. And even though I've had it just over 2 years (type 1) the complications are already mounting up.
alwaystryin replied May 1, 2009 2:48 PM I must also be honest here, as far as this topic. Even though every ounce of outer being says do not fear IT, IT scares the heck out of me, and I am only a Caregiver. My Wife's numbers have been way off the chart and out of control this past couple of weeks. Why? because all of our expenses are out of pocket!!
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Sally |
Sally replied May 1, 2009 3:08 PM
The way I look at it, you can either run from it or embrace it. I have done my best to embrace mine and take it day by day. I still have days where fear creeps in, but I don't let it stay for long. |
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Antique-Dave replied May 1, 2009 7:13 PM
A little adversity is good for the soul is one of the things I have always said to my kids. I've fought enough battles or demons in different arenas that when I was told the results of the test I saw it as one more beast that has come into to my life trying to take something from me.
Deleted User replied May 1, 2009 7:20 PM Well put Dave, I couldn't have said it better myself. :)
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markjohn1 |
markjohn1 replied May 1, 2009 7:56 PM
See we all have ways of dealing with this issue and we all fear certain aspects of Diabetes. No one wants to lose a leg or go blind and that is the far it puts in us that we should fear. Then there is the fear that keeps us from going out of the house or from going out with friends or eating a certain food. That is the fear that we need to counter. Not that we shouldn't try to counter that also, but that fear should always be in the back of our mind to keep us on guard and watching out for ourselves.
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Gabby |
Gabby replied May 1, 2009 8:10 PM
Determination is one of the things that diabetes had taught me, and this is another way to put it. It is a grit your teeth and jump in and make a difference kind of feeling. I like that diabetes can be "afraid' of me. I like that it can leave me alone as I am being the one in charge. This is a great concept and one that we as fighters need to keep close to our hearts.
maxcats replied May 1, 2009 8:52 PM Making diabetes afraid of me..I like that a lot. I get afraid of my diet so often and afraid of my insulin levels and what being on insulin means to my physical future. But if I can grab ahold of these fears and give them a good shake...everything I do for myself will just be the best I can do. Thank you Gabby |
I made this statement the other night on the radio show and at the time didn't realize the impact it would have on many diabetics.
I often wonder how many people come out and say, they love their diabetes or they hate their diabetes. Mostly I hear the "H" word from all and once in a while I hear the "L" word form some. I have even read it in blogs or heard it on video blogs but in all the time I have been around I can't recall anyone using the "F" word.
Well now I have and all of us have. I thought about it after I said it and for a second said where id that come from. I hadn't used it yet on any of my prior broadcast nor blogs. I hadn't used it in any communication like e-mail or letter writing. So it just came to me while doing the show.
Actually a great deal of times while I am talking on the show something, a thought or idea will come to me and I blurt it out on the show and wait for the outcome later. Sometimes with great success, other times I don't even want to go there.
So here we are now with my new thought/idea, Don't Fear Diabetes. Make Diabetes Fear You!
How do you feel about that statement?
What I would like before I give you my deeper meaning of that statement, is to hear from this community what you think and what it means to you. Then I will give my you my meaning of this statement.
Thanks and I look forward to your comments
Mark