SOrry to say this but Welcome to our club. Not a club I would wish on anyone but for all its worth, welcome. you are among friends and those who have been there. We have all asked, "Why me", Are you sure you are not type 2? from your description, it sounds like a type 2 set of meds. Type 1 are those who need insulin 4+ times a day. As bad as we type 2's have it, they have a worse/harder time keeping their blood sugars in control. Keep a log of things you do and what you eat along with your Blood sugars. Then review it, It will be an insight to what works for you and what to watch for. not everyone is the same and what works for me, might not be what works for you. Good luck. Dont be afraid of asking questions. We have a good open group here who will share their expirences with you. Again, good luck. glad you found us.

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I can relate. The best advice I can say is take it slow and make changes that fit with your lifestyle. After a while counting carbs, taking blood sugar readings,medication, etc will become just part of your daily routine and you won't really know any different. Also, there are plenty of tricks and helpful hints people will give you that will make it very much easier. I'll give you a coffee one later!

On what type you are. Do you know what blood tests they did on on and do you know the results?

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Welcome, Devon. As was said before, we have all asked the same question, "Why me?" I was diagnosed at the age of 56 with Type 1. Essentially my body has decided to self-destruct as it is caused by auto-immune disease. I suppose I could just have easily gotten rheumatoid arthritis, multiple sclerosis or fibromyalgia, or any of a number of auto-immune diseases; my body just chose diabetes. During my career as a public health nurse I spent my days trying to convince a number of different ethnic groups at risk for type 2 to practice prevention. Well, I didn't get type 2. And yes I had to ask the question "Why me?" One thing I am sure of, if you continue to do well with your control, and it all comes down to control, you will live a very fruitful life. Get to know the produce isle of the supermarket really well, that is where most of your free carbs are located, that and the fresh seafood and poultry isle. Watch food programs esp Emeril Green on Planet Green for food prep. Use as many freebies as you can; contact the makers of your glucose meter, get free insulin from your doctor (he/she gets them from the makers as free samples), contact your local health dept for free diabetic clinics. Do you have a health insurance through your work or are you out of work? If you are out of work then the health dept is the best bet for health care and supplies. I have health insurance that covers my testing supplies, explore on line health insurance companies for cost effective coverage. Best of luck and will give you more ideas as they come up.

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The "Head Swimming Effect" as I think of it at times.

And it rears it's ugly head more than I would like to admit. And I am just a Caregiver. I do not have Diabetes, the person I love more than Ice Cream does.

If I can offer any thing close to advice at this point it would be to say that you have had already some of those who I hold close to my Ecircle of support on this Site respond, profoundly caring individuals.

It is obviously a life changing event. One that, if pursued, can be many things. One of the things I have noticed for myself, is that no matter how hard we try, it is usually overwhelming, but with the right support it is easier to understand.

You state you are only 25, I am going on 50 and I say that only to show you a little math.

My Wife was diagnosed type 2 about 10 years ago. Insulin (at night) was only added along with her oral meds about three years ago. She has recently been also taking a mealtime Insulin.

Two years ago, her Medical Insurance was stopped. and she decided we could no longer 'afford' her meds.

Now here is the math.

(You*allofuswhocares)/allofuswhocares

The answer is always 1. YOU are the one who is in control. You only need the tools to help you through this Swimming.

And also take note that the 'allofuswhocares' variable always changes, well it is a variable...duh me.... But when you may feel down, remember that number, and I can also assure you that although a variable, it is also a constant.

And most of all, let us know how we can help. And when I say 'we', I also want you to know from where I am sitting, this is by far the best Site I have found to help keep our heads above water on this front. And I have been to hundreds.

Now let me also say welcome, kickback, and most of all, my Higher Power is with you...


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I forgot to add the hidden carbs are tricky. Such as what you may have with your coffee. Another thing I found helpful especially at first was the Glycemic Index. It can help to show you what foods (carbs) spike your Glucose readings moreso than others.

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iwas diagnost in jan with a reading of 700. sent home taking three shots a day two of atlantis and one of novalog. dont give up i got mine down to not taking any shots. and my readings are in the 90 to ioo. and now am on just pills one in morning and one at night. whach your carbs. i was on the sliding scale. i felt the same way as you did i think we all do. some of us got of the drugs but it takes time and pacients. good luck. coffee no sugar and i us splenda and one table spoon of half cream and halfmilk in my coffee two table spoons of that has 3 carbs. i have four cups so i use 1/2 TABLE SPOON PERCUP HOPE THIS HELPS.

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Welcome to the group! I have had T2 for about 6-7 years (probably longer, but not diagnosed). I still have moments of denial and I think we all have moments of self-pity. Don't worry, it's normal. You just have to take each day as it comes, sometimes each hour as it comes. I have found this site to be a big support and a huge amount of great information. Good luck and God bless!

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welcome devon I was saying the same thing May 11 2008,at first I was lost cause I never got sick before and to be in the hosp. for three days,it was when my grand kids came to see me that I wanted to stay aliveI'm a type2,and before that I did not take care of myself to well,I ateonce a day drank soda all day long and sometimes beer at night,but now I live better eat better andwalk alot more instead of driving to the store I walk,I guess what I am trying to say is life can and will get better if you want it and you sound like a strong woman and you will make it.

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How fortunate you are to be in touch with your emotions. This kind of news is hard to take, for anyone, at any age. When I first came on this site I discovered just how amazing people are with dealing with this diagnosis. Little children, the elderly and everyone in between... and each of us are anger that this disease trips us up, or trips our loved one up... The more amazing part is how we all come together and share our stories and inspire each other to be accountable for our bodies best care. We get down, someone says something kind and we feel like we can cope again... I admire you for jumping right in and saying, I don't like this... I don't want to deal with it... and who would? so you have come to the right place for support. and you what Devon, we laugh alot here too... so welcome aboard, read the discussions, and share your progress with us... we share sympathy, we celebrate your successes, we share our experiences... we come together and explore our humanity with each other... and I guarantee you, not one of us like our diagnose... but we are the lucky ones, we know we have it, and we know we can do something about it... Take very good care of you... it matters so much. I'm looking forward to getting to know you better. I bet you are an awesome person... talk soon, Jocelyn

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Hi devon - Just want you to know that I was diagnosed last month with type 2 and I kinda went through the same thing - but my first question was basically - what do I do now? The people on this site are SOOO helpful and lovely and they will answer any - I mean ANY- question you have to the very best of their ability and experience. You are so young and have a whole wonderful life ahead of you - just consider this one of life's challenges - trust me - you will be stronger - and healthier!-for it. If you ever need any advice or an army of shoulders to cry on, this is the place for you - we will all hold you up! Take care and hopefully we can get you through this rough patch!

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It will get better, even if it is only your attitude about getting this diagnoses. i know u have heard of Mary Tyler Moore, the actress. She is Type 1 and is living a long and successful life. Maybe you could go to her website.
Pray about this and I will be praying for u. Don't give up, yet.

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Hi Devon, I'am sorry about you being diagnosed , you will do fine. I know it seems overwhelming but you will get used to the routine. Remember when your sugar is out of whack you dont feel well. You will find a lot of help here, so many nice people. You will be fine. One great thing you have going for you is that you are a normal weight so that means you are not an overeater like me LOL. It really should make it easier with food choices. Carbs are what to watch out for and exercise is great in helping to control your sugars. Good luck to you and welcome to the site.
Hugs dyanne

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Hi all,

Thank you so much for all your words of encouragement and support. It's been an emotionally rough past month and everything you said was just what I needed to hear!

I do have another question...I have bruises all over my stomach and thighs (my injection sites). I make sure to switch spots each time I inject but I still get bruises. Is there a way to do it so that I don't get these ugly things, or is it just me and something I'll have to deal with?

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Devon, This is overwelming at the beginning. But I feel if you want to learn you are going to be OK. It is a new change in lifestyle and once you go about it will be like your everyday routine you have now. I was diagnosed at 6 years old. So my first 6 years I don't quite remember(Thank God) but I know it was hard for me to go to school and be different especially 46 years ago. I had no choice. But to de diagnosed at you age and already have a set lifestyle for 20 oe more years and have to change it overnight an be overwelming. Hang in there . Make little changes as you learn. Your wll have many questions and that is why everyone is on this site, because we will always have a question someone can help us with. I think once you have an ideas of what diabetes is all about you will see it is just changing a lifestyle to being more healthier. I don't like hearing I can't do this and I am going to be sick all my life, its your choice. I have overcome amputation dialysis and a kidney transplant and many , many other illness that I survived it all and waiting fir the cure. So get on the bandwagaon with the rest of us and we will try and make this an easier ride for you. ((HUGS)) Debe

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Hi Devon, and Welcome!!
The one most endearing thing this Site offers you is "People who know where you are coming from, and can understand what you are feeling!!" Been there done that sort of thing...you know.
I have been here for about a year or so, and I have learned so very much from these wonderful people, and you will too..you just have to listen and try new things, and see what works for you and what doesn't..like I tried Cinnamon,and it doesn't work for me because I have Gurd(Acid Reflux)and have found that I have to be careful taking anything Natural(especially natural sweetners like Stevia,& Agave Nectar), as they set off my acis reflux...but they may work just fine for you, but you won't know that unless you try them...Now, Vinegar works for me..especially Red Wine Vinegar,but I digress here...The point I am trying to make is that there is a wealth of Info on this site, and on many of the sites posted here to go get info.
Will it always be like this??...No, some days it will be better and some it will be worse..but the good news is.."This all up to you and how you deal with it on a day to day basis"!!Learning is the answer...educate yourself...Know what works for you..Listen to your Dr's and never be afraid to question them if you feel something isn't working for you, or if they aren't giving you the answers you need..and if they fail to respond then Get another Dr., because in the long run..this is all about YOU, and your life,and the choices you need to make to Have a Great life...That is all up to you, and we will all be here to help in whatever way we can!!
Hugz,*DJ

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Hello Devon,
I am on insulin injections as a T2. I dont bruise when I inject. I do seep alittle blood now and then but no bruises. I just hold my finger over the injection site for a second when its done and it cloggs up. What Gauge needles are you using? get the thinnest guage you can get. Mine are 30G, I beleive 31G is even thinner, and 28G is thicker. are you making sure you are using the correct locations? Stomace, back of arms, top of thighs, buttocks? If anyone tells you to throw it like a dart, (Like my wife once told me), dont listen. I use my stomace normally and I place the needle at a site, and just press in alittle, see if there are any pain receptors there. If I can feel the needle, I choose another spot. I dont feel the needles at all if I choose the site properly. I admit, Im such a whimp when it come to needles. So I dont deal well with pain. If you are bruising, consult your doctor. There may be other issues at hand. Good luck.

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I am so proud of this site. All of you are so special. Thanks for making this site so helpful and supportive.

Stead

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Hi Devon and I hate to welcome you to this club. I was in your same shoes on December 01, 2008 when I was diagnosed with Type 1 at 43. I, like you had been at a normal weight, active and had perfect health. It would take 3 pages to write my entire story about what all happened so I won't even go there. I too wound up in ICU for weeks, was DKA and had many other problems. I also lost a ton of weight in about 3 weeks. It's almost 5 months later, and I'm till at a very unhealthy weight. I never took any medication, my pancreas had stopped making insulin completely and I had no option but insulin injections. When I finally left the hospital, my head was spinning. I had no family members with Type 1 or Type 2 diabetes and to top that off, none of my friends were diabetic. Just before leaving the hospital, the diabetic nurse sat there while I gave myself about 50 shots in my stomach (saline solution) before they would let me leave. I just wanted to run and hide.

Brighter side, I came home and the next morning it took me over 2 hours to give myself the first shot in my stomach, but I DID IT! If you have been doing this a month, I know the dread/fear that comes with it. I didn't count carbs, didn't even know how to. It gets easier as you go on. I can only give myself shots in the stomach still because of my weight but I have never had any problems with a bruise or anything in the injection area. You might want to talk with your doctor, you may need a different gauge syringe, ultra thin, many things will cause the area to bruise.

I actually found Diabetic Connect surfing the web in the hospital. I wanted to learn all I could about diabetes. I have made some friendships here for life and without DC and the support I've received here, I would be a basket case. So to all my friends on DC I Love You!

Devon, at 25 or 43 it's a tough pill to swallow. And be it Type 1 and Type 2, you just control the two differently. I promise there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Keep you head up, and it does work out. Hugs to you, Angie

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Devon, I do remember how crazy it was when my son was first diagnosed. We tried so hard to do everything right. And yet we still had those seemingly random high and low blood sugar episodes. We worked so hard to analyze every one of them. We wanted to be in total control. Fortunately, our son was very driven about it too.

But we have certainly found that over time, you do learn to be more relaxed. Some days you're perfect. Some days, not so much. But it does get easier and more intuitive. It will become second nature to you and you'll also realize that some fluctuations simply can't be controlled--so you just roll with the punches.

Hang in there.

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Hello Devon, welcome to our community! I know this is very frustrating to you.
I am thinking that you are not seeing an endocrinologist (diabetes specislist). I see both and endo and a GP type doctor for more thorough care.

I an assuming that you are not using a fast acting insulin. I don't understand why you are using metformin. Are you still producing some insulin of your own? If so that is called a "honeymoon" phase. If you are not producing some of your own insulin and you are type 1 then you should be using two kinds of insulin. Your current insulin is evidently a long lasting type. That is a "basal" insulin that you take 1 or 2 times per day. The kind you need to avoid those highs is a fast acting insulin. That is a "bolus" insulin that you take prior to each meal or snack. You need to establish your own personal carb ratio that tells you how many grams of carbohydrates (carbs) one unit of bolus insulin will handle. Some people need one unit for every 15g of carbs. I need 1 unit for every 6g because I have insulin resistance even though I am type 1, like you. If you use both basal and bolus insulin and make adjustments as needed then you can get very good control and not have these highs except on rare occssions, like John mentioned. Once you have good control your life will become less worrisome and you can feel much more normal. I have been type 1 for 63 years and I am very healthy. You can have a long, healthy life too.

After seeing an endo you can also see a diabetes educator and a dietitian for further assistance with carb counting and determining your carb ratio, etc.

Good luck to you!

Richard

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I do on my stomach it is much better no muscle in there bu it is not for everyone it has to be follow Dr's order but you can try askk dr. to insert in stomach

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Devon, Welcome to the club. So sorry about the news.
I was diagnosed with type one when I was eigh years old. Have had it sinfor 49 years.Let me offer some advice though. Keep your blood sugar where it should be as much as possible. I don't want you to end up like me.
I had a stroke in 1999, caused by diabetes. It left me paralyzed on the left side, no balance and almost blind.
Since then I've had both legs amputated above the knee, left arm still paralyzed, legally blind, kidney disease,thyroid disease, heart attack, and blood clot in my arm. All this because
I didn't take care of my blood sugar.
I'm not trying to scare you, but these are the facts.

It's getting much easier to control things not.Diatetic snacks and desserts taste almost exactly like the real thing now.
As you go along things will get easier and automatic.
I know it seems scary and hard right now, but they are making strides every day in care and prevention. I urge you to go to the American Diabetes Association web site and follow the updates. There may b light at the end of the tunnel.
I didn't want to scare you any more.
I just wanted to show you the urgency of keeping your diabetes in check.
I wish you thebest as you go along. but it will get easier and easier.

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YES I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN I AM A TYPE 2 BUT I'M EVEN SCARED TO EAT MUCH MYSELF COFFEE SPIKES MINE OCCATIONALLY I CONTROL MINE BY DIET BUT I KNOW THAT CAN CHANGE AT ANYTIME I FEEL ALONE AT TIMES AND THINK IT'S UNFAIR I EVEN TRY TO GET OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS' TO WATCH WHAT THEY EAT AND ALL BUT THEY THINK THEY HAVE NOTHING TO WORRIE ABOUT EVEN THOUGH IT RUNS HIGH WITH IN THE FAMILY .

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Hi! I 56 years old, a nana to 3 and a mom to 1. Never imagined that I would ever be diabetic. I was a deer in the headlights when I was diagnosed a couple of months ago. Still comming to grips with it. I have found that the best thing to do is visit the people on this site often. It is a place where you can find friends and information. You will find loving support when you feel overwhelmed. This,I have found is the place to go because sometimes friends and family don't understand the devastation you feel at first. They cannot know what you feel about the struggle of balancing your carbs, the things that can go wrong if you don't.
Once you get used to counting carbs you will find that you can pretty much eat whatever you want within reason. I had Birthday cake on my Birthday this week, I gave up carbs for dinner, my daughter made Taco's so I had a taco salad and no shell. My diatician says there isn't much you can't have that you had before you just have to be aware of portion size and the amount of carbs. Be creative with your meals, they don't have to be boring.
checking the glycemic index is a great idea. I wish you well and hope to see you as a friend.

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Hi, and welcome friend! I was diagnosed in 2006, and I had extreme thirst overnight, and was put in ICU for 6 days! Diagnosed with Diabetes Mellitus Ketoacidosis, I have been taking 5 shots of insulin daily for this entire time. It is what it is, a lifestyle change. I was told if I had gone home, I would have gone to sleep and slipped into a coma and died. Since my husband had been deployed two days earlier, the thought of my kids finding me made me realize I had to adopt another way. I walk 6 miles daily, and it only takes an hour and 1/2. I take a low dosage of aspirin and Lipitor as precaution. My A1C has stayed at 5.7 all of this time. I eat what I want, using the correct serving size, and I attended nutrition classes to know what foods are best. My life is better, and I feel so much gratitude to still be kicking at 40! navywife

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Hello Why me?
My name is Bertlette, and I know exactly how you feel I was wearing those shoes only a year and some weeks ago "April 1, 2008", I was diagnosed with type 2, and to really top it off I was diagnosed with Congestive Heart Failure, after waking up from a medically induced coma, for 15 days and trying to learn how to walk again. What I'm trying to say is "yes", having diabetes is one of the worst diseases I feel I could have, but you know what I'm alive I'am still here for my loving family.

I thank my God, the doctors and nurses and especially my family they was there to take care of me, it's one day at a time and to be honest with you I still have bad days, I have to check my b/s 3-4 times a day and if it's too high I have to give myself insulin those many times a day, as well as taking metformin. I didn't know about metformin until I decided to check out "diabetic connect", and a article was written about this medicine that could really help me, with the constant shaking and fatique. So I decided to talk to my doctor about it, taking the pill has been very helpful. And venting my hurt and anger about this disease to my wonderful friends and the people on diabetic connect that's not my friends can also be helpful because they could tell you much more then I could. I wish you the best, days will get better as time goes bye, and one more thing I would like you to be a new friend to me.

Caring & Sharing
Bertlette

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although u r diabetic , you r more butifull than many other non diabetic females
would lhke to keep in contact with u

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Devon,
You are not alone; the same thing happened to me only my numbers were always over 560 and once my doctor told me I had hit 800. Which the doctors and nurses at the hospital said was impossible for anyone to actually have hit. I have the same problem of having to pass up the foods I love for the ones that will make me live longer and healthier.

skinny

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Why me?

It's cause you are special! And we who have this disease are all just extra sweet!!!

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It's normal to feel depressed and upset. But with the right attitude, you will make it. Do not let diabetes control you, you control diabetes. I was diagnose 2 years ago. As a police officer I was afraid to lose my job and my social life. But with friends and a good team, such as a certified dietitian, good doctor, do your regular checks.i.e. A1C, eyes checks yearly, blood pressure, you will be OK. if I can help you in anyway, please email me. at policeofficer002000@yahoo.com. My advice is not a medical advice, just what I go thru daily. take care. Officer Mitchell

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I belive it's forever. You can do it & still have a good life. lee

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Hi I know how you feel.By the way my name is Thelma.I have had diabetes for a long time.I believe somewhere around 8 to 10 years.I've ask the same thing why me.My daddy was diabete.So now myself and my oldest sister have it.I don't know what else I might could do,but be here to listen to anything you've got to say.

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Im sorry to hear that you have diabetes. I know how you are feeling. There are a lot of good sites like this one that offer support. Use them, it really helps. As far as eating what you used to eat, try looking for recipes that are similar, and try them out. Ive found that adding herbs really helps make them great tasting and will help you with your sugar. The hopelessness will go away when you get better control. Don't get discouraged. We are all here for you. Educate yourself on diabetes and it will help you understand what is going on with your body. For now just remember to take it one second, one hour, one day at a time and you will get there. Good luck and smile. You are not alone.

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Hi, My name is Barbara also known here of my dogs name (bighead).
I must have had Diabetes for years and didn't know even though I went to several doctors and they never checked it. Finally I had a heart attack which was my second one and was in ICU for nine days, when I came home I wasn't getting my strength back and was bed fast, so my husband took me to a doctor again and my sugar was well over 600, They didn't think I would make it through the night. so the next morning I went to his house and he gave me a shot. I found a specialest and now I am taking 2 shots a day. I lost 65 lbs in 2 months. There are so many things I eat that I never did before but I am so thankful to be alive I can do it. I crave sweets and other things I use to eat but I just can't have them and I know it, so I eat healthy a lot of meats and sweet potatoes baked. I drink a instant breakfast drink and coffee for breakfast. which does raise my sugar some but I take 2 shots every day plus 16 heart pills. and my fingers stay sore from testing.
You can do this sweetie, just set your mind to it as I did, I thought I was very healthy too, I sing gospel music and loved to play different outside games , swiming, and the works, but it has slowed me down very much. I am so glad God spared my life I will do what I have to do, and you can too. It want be easy I know I have been taking shots less than a yea. and I am sure you can get help with your meds,they are very high in cost if you have to pay for them but I am sure there is somewhere there is a place to supply them for you. Take care and God Bless!! Barbara

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Hello Devon,

Welcome. Why me indeed. Why any of us? DNA? Health choices? Environment? Who knows. Instead of "why me", I like to think of what I can do about it. This site has some of the world's best people on it with countless advice, knowledge and opinions. Stay here and read about it as much as you can, and you'll never feel alone or confused.

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I know what you are going through. It's not easy I have been diabetic for 37 years. I have had my share of problems. But the one thing I can tell you the better care you have right now the less problems you will have latter. It is so worth the extra care right now to do the best you can. I have a lot of problems now including kidney failure. Please take care of your self you have a lot going for you and being young they may have a cure very soon. Thak Care.

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heh Devon,
hi. i'm a caregiver to my mother-in-law. she is type II. she was diagnoised several years ago.just last weekend my 27 yr. old son, was diagnoised with type II. he also said"why me" it has only been a week, and he is doing great. it took him about 3 days, for him to reach reality. now he say's it just eating healthier. good luck, and glad you found us. .

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Hello there Deven and as what sarg said welcome here. It's not I would wish this awful disease on anyone ether.I've been with this disease for a couple of years now and in this community for only a few months but it has been a life saver for me. You here with people that's in the same boat as you are. I've asked the same question as why me. Going through the same kind of emotions as you. I don't have insurance ether, my doc works out a plan with me on the bill.
I do wish you all the best in this roller coaster of life. Wish you lots of luck with this disease and finding your comfort area. As we all have.

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Wow... I can honestly say that you "really - truley" sound just like I did when I found out I was diabetic(type 2). It seemed like breathing was spiking my BS. And because I have other medical problems - when they give me problems or if I'm in alot of pain - my BS will spike. It took me about 2-3 weeks to get past this. The hardest part was "accepting" that I was diabetic, and that if I didn't take care of myself than I wouldn't be here. Not being able to grow old w/ my hubby - watching my kids grow up - get married - and one day see my "Grandchildren".

Some days it's so easy, and I still have those days that I just want to throw out all my medicine - meter, strips everything to do w/ diabetes. Wanting to eat anything I want and as much as I want. I found out the hard way that even w/ the medicine and checking my BS 3 times a day... you can't just eat "anything" you want because you will pay for it in the end.

It will get easier. Once you get over that inital shock, anger, depression, crying, temper tantrum, feeling as if its the end of world,etc.

Hang in there sweetie!! You can do it :)
You did make one good step in the right direction by joining this community. You will have lots of support & get lots of ideas and someone will share tips that will help out.

Always,
Babs

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hi here's something that may keep you informed and be of help
it's a diabetic food guide from today's yahoo home page
here's the link
http://health.yahoo.com/diabetes-living/diabetes-using-a-...
i also have found that walking at a brisk pace really impacts your numbers in a positive way

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Devon.
first, welcome. you have come to the right place. i'm a caregiver of a Type II. no, she doesn't take insulin daily, but at times she needs it. she won't give herself shots, so i have too. so i know how you feel, hon. the first time. well, something like yours. now, just last weekend, my 27 yr. ole was diagnoised with Type II. but we're all here for you, day or night, you can find someone, if one can't help, then other can. and if nothing else, we have BIG shoulders for you.
take care,
cyndi

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Hello... My name is Lisa

I have been type 1 diabetic for 26 years now... and yes, I asked myself the very same question, way back when... You know though, it's not as scarey as you think... It is a lot of : new education, and following of new diet, and carb counting. however, things have advanced so in the many years since I was diagnosed, you are some-what lucky. I know how you feel though, for I just asked that very same question to myself, just 6 years ago, when my daughter was newly diagnosed at age seven type 1 diabetic as-well... gee... that crushed me more, then when I found out. There are so many advancements in the last 26 years since I found out, it is just unreal... There are now newer insulins, and insulin pumps, and carb counting etc. YOU'LL BE FINE JUST REMEMBER, CHIN UP, SMILE, AND TAKE EACH DAY AS IT COMES, AND STRIVE FOR THE BEST YOU CAN DO, AND START A NEW NEXT DAY IF JUST QUIET DOES NOT WORK OUT... STAY RELAXED, DON'T GET STRESSED AND BELIEVE ME, YOU'LL DO GREAT!!! I HAVE EVERY FAITH IN YOU TO MAKE A GOOD DIFFERANCE, FOR YOUR BETTER HEALTH,.. IT IS SCAREY AT FIRST, I KNOW, BELIEVE ME, AND I DO WORRY A LOT FOR MY CHILD, AND ME, BUT FINDING PEOPLE TO HELP AND SUPPORT YOU THROUGH IS JUST GREAT, AND THIS WEB SITE WILL DO JUST THAT... IT IS CHALLANGING AT TIMES, AND YOU WILL GET DISCOURAGED, BUT YOU KNOW WHAT, KEEP YOUR CHIN UP, AND A GOOD DISPOSITION, AND YOU WILL DO FINE!!! smile... Lisa and daughter Advocate 2

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Quit listening to the doctors that are just treating the symtem not the cause. Here are some sites you might want to take a look at.
http://www.rawfor30days.com/
http://annwigmore.com/
http://www.hippocratesinst.org/
http://www.livingfoodsinstitute.com/index.htm
http://www.livingfoods.co.uk/
http://creativehealthinstitute.com/
http://rawdoctors.com/home.html
Good luck Z

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If you add coffee mate or cream to your coffee they convert to sugar what type of insulin

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Hey Devon!

Don't despair girl!!!! I felt exactly like that too....diagnosed at 17....and that was (gulp) 25 years ago! BUT the sad part is, yes you do have to do this for the rest of your life, but you know what- You will be Healthier than most people because you have to watch what you eat. I'm always open to helping newbies :) just kick any questions you may have my way...I have lots of experience- some good some bad- I'm currently on an insulin pump which is great because you only get poked about once evey 3 days for the insulin injection. Hang in there! You'll be fine. if you want, check out my profile and take a look at what my father in law told me when I was 17...it always helped me.....

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Dear Girl,
I am so sorry for your present struggle as a newly diagnosed diabetic. Time heals all wounds and it will once you become familiar with your schedule. I sincerely hope that in time you can get an insulin pump. It will make life much easier for you.

I was seven when diagnosed and I am now 67 and in very good health. Thanks be to God. I live a rich and full life. Please let me know if I can be of help to you.
Blue Eyes

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I can honestly say;I know how you feel.When they told me was a diabetic.They wanted to start me on shots right away.I said whoa can we try the pills first.They did with diet , excerise,and meds. I've been able to control my blood sugars.The best adivce I can give you is , that you take the attitude,I'm going to control this.It's not going to control me.If they have the class there on diabetes.Take it.It really does help. your Friend Darlene

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I write on behalf of my daughter Tiffany. She is 10 and the exact thing happened to her October 27th 2008. She was released from the hospital on October 30th the day b-4 halloween. Life has changed. We went to the movies instead of trick or treating. Alot for a 10 year old. She too goes up for no reason. It does seem to be about the same time as my monthly cycle. She is still young and we will see how that all effects her. Some days are ok and other days she doesn't want to eat carbs cause she doesn't want a shot. The hardest thing I think for her is she cannot just have snack she craves, even fruit, unless she treats herself. At times she hopes she's low just so she can eat some carbs without a shot. As a mom you want to make everything all better for your child and this time I can only watch and hope God takes control. Stay strong!!!!

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hi devon! i know you've heard this several times now, but once again, welcome to the club. i've had type 2 for over 15 yrs. now, having been diagnosed at age 29. i remember how scary it was at first. i've always loved food, then suddenly food felt like the enemy. the best advice i can think of early on is to learn as much as you can, but at your own pace. besides seeing a diabetes educator (make sure he/she is a CDE certified diabetes educator), there are some very good books for newly diagnosed folks out there. "diabetes: the first year" is particularly helpful, and i'm sure other folks can also recommend some others. i'm sad to say that this never goes away, so you'll have to learn to deal with it in your own way. that's something we all have in common. just remember you're not alone, and lots of us are rooting for you.

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Devon, Everyone on this site are 'just the best' people, very informative and are here with open arms...I am not diabetic but my 22 year old daughter is, she was diagnosed in 2005 and is still having a hard time (at times), she has other medical conditions also. jphj00's remark so touched my heart, please listen....While you are younger, if you get into the daily routine, it will become habit and get somewhat easier...Best to you...Kathy

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dear Devon
I hope you now in good health .. my story just like you .. i was taking bills for 7 years and sudinly i found my blood sugger is 520 and doctors transfar me to insuline shots & i take 2 shots per day .. i was loying sweets & makrony & i drink tea & coffi like watter every hour .. but now i have to keep my blood sugger in low level .. make that ilness your friend and try to adjust your self on a new program and believe me you will used to live with it with any problems and you are wright you still young but you have to accept it & you will be happy
i hope these words will help you
yours sencerly
aly eletre

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Dear Devon....
You will overcome all of this crazy stuff as well like we all did. Just take your medicine daily there are low cost medicines online-check with you doctor first. Try joining a health group at the hospital. Mine really helped me out.
Take care,
Keith G.

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I was in a diabetes education class at our local hospital and a 60'ish year-old asked this same question. She stated that she "hadn't asked for this"! No joke! I didn't either, but I am so thankful I wasn't trying to deal with this before they discovered insulin and all the medications they now have for diabetics.

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I was reading all the responses that everyone has left in regards to this "Why me?" and I found that there is some of "me" in each of the respones. It made me feel alot better in knowing that there is someone out there that knows what I'm going through. I'm sure that I'm not the only one who feels that way.

I wish I found this site sooner. I didn't find this site until after I was diagnosed as a Type 2 until close to a year after I was diagnosed. The information that has been given is great - what's so important is that each of the repsones is from real life experience, not just a story someone heard. When you are newley diagnosed being able to learn what you need to do, or how do you do it doesn't have to make you feel "lost" in this big world. Cuz someone here knows about the who's, what's, where, and there are more friendly people here that will be there for you during your up's & downs. Ready to pull you out of that downward spiral.

It's such a relief to know that no one makes you that you asked a stuipd question or a wrong one. Here in our community we have such wonderful people that will give you all the support & help that they can & will give without judgement. It would be a perfect world if the strength, caring, & love that is freely givien in our community would spread out into the rest of this world :)

Have a Great Week everybody!! And just to let you all know that I think you "ALL" are such AWESOME people:)

Always,
Babs

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Hi Devon,

YES - it gets better. I've had type 1 diabetes for 10 years now. It still is very hard some days but MOST days are good. I hated the first few months after my diagnosis, when I was just getting used to things. So many people thought I was "counting carbs" for diet reasons and gave me grief (b/c, like you, I'm a normal 125 lbs) before they knew what I was doing. Please also know that YOU did not cause this to happen - healthy eating, healthy weight...nothing contributes/takes away from getting this disease. Instead of looking really far ahead where it looks too hard to handle, please just take one day or even hour at a time for now. But please also know that it DOES get better - I live a completely normal life, with three kids and a great husband. Take care...

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Being newly diagnosed can be very difficult. Is there some way to find a group in your community that you can share with and learn from? I have type 2 and fight myself in cycles. I do very well for awhile and then start in on the sugar again. It takes awhile but then I start over. It would help me to have a diabetic partner to share with - someone to help when sugar calls. Do not beat yourself up - it will take time to get used to your new diagnosis - treat yourself with kindness. Have you taken any diabetic education classes yet? There are ways to eat the things you ate before and even desserts! Good luck and know you are not alone.

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I'm a Type 2 diabetic and have been for 25 years but I still have to fight my cycles of not wanting to pay attention to my diet. I am overweight and need to do that just for my weight too! Now I'm on insulin, which scares me a bit, so I'm trying to crack down on myself. I live in a place where they feed you so sometimes I just have to cut things in half or cut them out completely--especially desert! I don't keep anything especially caloric or with sugar in my apt. except for OJ which I keep for emergencies. This helps me a lot in not cheating. I'm trying to watch my carbs more than calories, though my doc doesn't agree with me. I find I stay in my calorie range counting those carbs...that works for me!

Keep up your efforts--don't give up. It is definitely worth it, no matter what your weight. Your diet is essential with minimal medication. Something must be done in this country about that, it is a desperate problem.

Please know you have LOTS of people for you and behind you who care about what happens to you so don't feel alone. Definitely try to find a diabetic buddy, one who really understands the problems you are going through. Take care, friend

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Hi, I have type two diabeties. However, when I first was diagnosed I was on insulin injections inorder to keep my blood sugars down. I believe I was taking two shots a day for about two or three months. I was 60 pounds heavier then, but it sure dosn't seem as complicated as it use to be. I pretty much check my blood sugar twice a day and it is usually around 100. Things have really leveled out. I think this happens when you get familiar with your body. Take Care, Hope this helps.

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I'm so sorry. I know the frustration. Just keep doing what the doctors' say and count every minute as a pleasing. You can get help with your meds at the manufacturer, patient assistance, go t their web site. They all have it. It take more work but worth it when u don't have insurance. God Bless TLJ

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its bombet

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its bombet, lets hope medical science comes up with a cure. I was very outgoing and still try to be. ajust take care of your feet and regulate your blood sugar. Avoid anything sweets and definitely lower your carbohydrate portion(s). regards

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Devon, apparently you have not posted on this discussion since April, 26. That was 16 days ago. If you are still reading these replies I hope you will let us know you are still alive and well. PLEASE!!!!

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Oh I am alive...and well! Forgive me for not posting sooner but things have been rather hectic in my part of the world lately. On top of my new diagnosis my mother-in-law has been diagnosed with terminal brain cancer and still has two young children at home. That's a whole different story though...

I have had numerous doc appointments within the last few weeks...the most notable being my appointment at a diabetes facility. I was given the results of my c peptide test which was 1.6, apparently normal, but low. I was told that I was in the honeymoon phase and that my natural insulin production would end most likely within the year. I was also told that the antibodies were present, making it officially type 1. The doc took me off the metformin and added Humalog on a sliding scale )should my sugars be above 200 pre-meal). That was a blow...I thought 2 shots a day was bad enough. The other blow...Before my diagnosis, my husband and I had decided that after two years of marriage we were going to start our own family. The doctor told us to forget it, that we shouldn't plan on it for a least a year and even then not if my sugars weren't under control. I know it's for the best, but it was a really hard thing to hear.

So far I haven't had to use the Humalog very often, which is good because two of the times I've taken it it has made me crash! My doc told me I was "insulin sensitive" and I would need to adjust the amount I give through trial and error. I am a preschool teacher and I think one of the most frustrating parts of this condition is trying to make time for myself during a day that is already chaos, with so many little ones depending on me for so much. It's a huge burden right now...grocery bill is making me broke, shots are painful and making me cry. I'm still trying to be positive about all of this but it's not working so well.

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I'm sorry, but this is lite compaired to other things out there. All you have to do is take care of your conditions, and like me, maybe get off the meds.

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It's ok to be nervous....and unsure. You well be ok about your health. Just think in terms of living a good lefe with the illness. You can do this...take your insulin and live.
Take care,
Keith

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I felt the same way. I love to eat and since I quit smoking 6 years ago the food just tasted better than ever. Now I'm 60 years old and stabbing myself in the tummy every day. Its not fun but something we have to do. You can still eat all the good things you just have to do it smarter than before. Hang in there you have a long way to go.

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hi there!!

well i guess alot of us are in the same boat!! i was 16 when i was diagnosed and felt the same way you did!! nothing seemed fair!! "i DONT WANT TO" became my catch phrase and the more i said it the less understanding people got! and the less important my diabetes became!! but i soon learned that my diabetes is important and the best advice i would give to some one who was newly diagnosed later in life is ALWAYS TALK ABOUT WHAT IS ON YOUR MIND. You might find yourself getting frustrated sad , angry or even lonely, but dont feel like you have to deal with it on your own, its JUST TOO HARD TO DEAL WITH IT ON YOUR OWN!

so my friend, thats the best advice i can give you, remember that life is a gift and the gift of life sould never be wasted on pointless questions like "why me" just be happy that you're you!!

best of luck in the future

roshy

ps feel free to get intouch

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I was so SURE that I would NOT fully develop this disease! haha---So, I was borderline for over 50 yrs. have a low thyroid, but mostly I have been fighting this depression, battle fatigue=complete exhaustion---barely get out of bed for 4 years, was so sleep deprived I was NUTS! There, I have said it!

I am 77 yrs. and felt a bit smug about NOT really developing diabetis, BUT when I had my second knee replaced, was also trying to care for my declining, 98 yrs old mom, and grumpy husband, quit my 72 hours a week job, after retiring---it was 170. Not too high but the Drs were concerned! POOEYYYY! I should have KNOWN BETTER< But I thought that anyone could overcome anything if they just set their mind to it! Well, that has become another adjustment----I too, was mad at first, it wasn't enough to be as messed up as I was, God chose me to endure one more thing, the VERY thing I hated----to WATCH WHAT I EAT!!

But you know what--after struggling, denying, trying again, I am gradually learning to take my BS like I am supposed to, watch the "goodies" that I had loved so well---that had so helped me in my depression--I know---emotional eating-----well, it caught up and I had to pursue other things to make me "feel good"!

Now I am FINALLY getting into a better, healthier life style, joined the Wellness Center 3 X a week, going swimming, something I do ENJOY--but usually have to FORCE myself to get around and go! But once I get there, I so enjoy it. My BS is gradually staying within better limits, and I am losing a pound or two a week. I have belonged to Tops for years, but for the first time, I am finally, actually losing a bit, and I feel WORTHY of the progress! Another story-- hugs to all for your kind support! Pat Roth

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Hi DEVON, I was diagnosed with diabetes 3yrs in june. I was thirsty all the time. So I decided to go to the doctor like you did. I was put in the hospital with a blood sugar of 410. I was like what did I do to deserve this. It was in my genes. I was in the hospital for 4days. I cried & said I can't this. Iwas taking 6-7 shots a day so me CDE put me on a insulin pump but I still with alot of trouble with my A1C.

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step 1.
find an excellent endocrinologist

step 3...n survive make sure the endocrinologist is there continually while you are in gestation.

get this verified by at least two other endocrinologists. i mean verified whether type 1 or type 2. some young adults are developing type 1.

be careful who gives you advice. this is an individual disease. i lost some weight ergo:

i cannot take the pills. my blood sugar crashes.

sometimes i can eat a bunch of candy. i check and need insulin. other times i do not. i take insulin on a demand basis. i have to test two to three times daily. if it is over 200 in the daylight, i take a small shot of insulin, as in three to six units. if i get 150 or over at bedtime i do the same. it is a fast acting insulin, novolog with a flexpen. this is easy because you slip a short needle on the end and twist to get your dosage and inject on your stomach or side or...

my wife takes a short acting and long acting intensive dose morning and evening. if i did that i would be dead before i got to the hospital.

this is not fun. the fluctuations in what happens if you are type 2 may affect your mind. i see a psychologist for this and other conditions. i am disabled, not because of the diabetes.

i wish you well, n'shallah, god willing, in the names of the gods

forrest

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