Like "my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family in your time of need. I pray that your burdens be few, and that your spirits be lifted up high. If you need anything or anyone just say the word and let us know here on the site. If you just need to vent or just to lean on someone we are all here. Take care of you and your family and husband too. We do understand and we are here to help. Take all the time you need we are not going anywhere. "