Like "Harlen, you are such a wonderful, loving person. I admire your integrity. You are constantly encouraging each and every one of us to live life to the fullest, be thankful for what we have, and to keep striving to do our very best, and most of all, love ourselves. This is the only life we have, and we don't get do overs. Thank you Harlen for being here for us. Love, and hugs to you, Sue T."