Like "I know just how you feel.Only my situation is a little different. Mine is my kids the jealousy, If I show alittle attention to one the others feel like that one is my favorite,but far from the truth they are all my favorites some are justable to help themselves better than others. And Im not talking youngsters I am talking about ranges from 27 up to 42. Then I have a 42 year old that is so independent that so wont take from anyone and is always helping the rest out."