Like "Yes, it does. I am the consumate overachiever. I take care of everything and everybody, my family, his family. I can never be off for a minute. To add to this pressure you have him constantly telling me to eat, check blood, and do everything else that needs done. It's been 6 months and I've barely gotten used to the idea myself. I feel like I'm being constantly monitored and I'm starting to resent it. Then he pulls the, it's because I love you. How do you respond to that? It would be different if I weren't taking care of myself but I really am. Better than I ever have."