Like "Hey suecsdy, nice to see you. That's a great idea to bring someone along. A second set of ears is a great idea. It's so easy to get caught up forming your next question and miss something, so backup helps. And a little support is nice too. Wow, that must have been scary to have that misdiagnosis, a good idea to have your daughter with you for support, especially if it hadn't turned into good news. And friends and family often want to help in some way, they may be just waiting to be asked."