Like "That seems all well and good, but when you have to pay for certain things in life. Mortgage, taxes, college tuition, etc it doesn't sound fair to not be able to do that for my family because I have diabetes. There are daily challenges for everybody and we choose the path in our life, but its not all about us. We have the responsiblity of our families lives also. Trying to find the fine line is not easy but I will still search for that. I don't think my life has anything to do with yours and the decisions that you make. Might be good for you but maybe not for me at this stage"