Like "Hi mspiggy81, You are dealing with so much, and I am sad to read that your husband is not being supportive. I wrote an article awhile back that you might find helpful. Here is a link to it: As Gabby suggested, bringing your husband to a doctor's appointment might make a big difference in his attitude. Getting him to understand, and get on board with working with you, may take some time and patience on your part. He may be going though his own denial right now, hoping that if he pretends this isn't happen, then your diagnoses will just go away on their own. But we know it doesn't work this way. In the meantime, take good care of yourself. And that includes getting support from people who can listen and show you the compassion you deserve. I hope you have people like that in your life. Stay in touch with us, my friend. You are not alone. Gary "