Like "I wuold like give your husband courage , all is in our mind, we make that we think, then I propose he think about a diet that you thinks is ok for him and ok for his Doctor, compromise for both, but allways remember a spanish phrase ''el pez muere por la boca''. Say your husband that I think about him and we hope he get better, and can have a good glucose control, this will be happy your familiy, because they want you for long time. "