Like "For ten years, I was very involved with people, served on numerous boards, etc. and it was as a volunteer. I saw the good, bad and ugly involved in raising money for various organizations and it left me with a sour taste. Started loads of clubs in community but didn't want to be the leader any more. I now want to be a 'member' and just participate. Giving up? No! But looking for 'real' people that are themselves and really sweet and thoughtful, not selfish and phoney. Not easy to find at my age! I do not underestimate myself but I have set my standards higher when it comes to making 'true friends'. It is always easy to make acqquaintances!"