Like "Am sorry bout what you're going through...and yes Jesus on the Cross did forgive his accussers....we do have to pray and forgive them but as you say...dont want to stoop to their level and distancing from them maybe good for now, We dont need all the negitive stuff in our lives since having diabetes, we have to come to terms and deal with the stuff but does effect you if have too much negitive stuff. Hope all goes well for you...Happy Holidays!!!"