Like "Howdy Mya! WELCOME to DiabeticConnect! Do you have a question or concern or is it that you just want to talk? I think that I work better with a well defined question or concern. My 1st wife (now ex) tried to get me to talk to her with "What ya thinkin" but if she asked a question of me I was better able to talk to her. Unfortunately that is the way my ADHD brain works. If 89 = the year of your birth, my youngest son, "AJ" was born to me and 1st wife in 3/89 (he is the only one of my 3 sons who is not yet married) Blessings to you and yours James Baker "