Like "Well said Raven. There is a reason why she is eating and the problem needs to be solved. If there are problems with her marriage, her mother isn't helping the problem by harping on her about eating. Her mother should be a mother and talk to her daughter. That could also be a part of the problem. Her mother may not have given her the time or love she needed as a child and she may fear she is doing the same thing to her children. We can all speculate but I think she really needs a BFF to talk to and listen to her and be a friend through thick and thin. "