Like "i thank everyone of you for your imput! i am now aware that i'm not in the boat alone. i have so many good friends here that are suffering too! we have all been brought low at times and a lot of us have suffered a low self-esteem, but we keep hanging in there, don't we? you all have encouraged my soul by your helpful remarks and when my soul is encouraged the rest takes a back seat. it doesn't go away, it just is not important as my soul! i love you all, please do be encouraged also, love one another and help each other out."