Like "I too use my cane and wheelchair to get around. good ideas about the self talk. I am going to try and do that. I beat myself up, knowing what I was able to do years before. Now I have to accept the situation that was thrown at me. I don't say I like it, but it is something new I have to find new way to do the things I did before. The problem that bothers me, is the things that took me 10 minutes to do,now thake me 45. I was hyper and now I get so disgusted in myself but I am not go to let this get me down, Your are doing a great job Lilmarm..................Debe"