Like "You go girl! If they want you back, then make sure it is on the terms you need them to be. Your not being selfish, it is about doing what you need to do for you and your family! Glad to hear you have an amazing church family. That helps alot!! So you already know to give this to God! Sounds like it may be working if your job is callng to get you back! Good luck and let me know how you are doing! God Bless, Mickey"