Like "I am so sorry your going thru this Just know that menny go thru the same thing and we all get it together As the kids get older you will teach them what to do Jaelyn my grandbaby that lives with me when she was 3.5 years onld and know how to call 911 shes nine now and if need be she can give me a glouco shot. and or call 911 them little one is quite smart lol Best wishes Harlen"