Like "I think what would really be good for us as well, as our family and friends is to have a somewhat open journal; that you can write the things you can not say openly, and leave it in a place for others' who come in to read and write in,too. Maybe it will help them out, and maybe it will help you out, especially if you are like me and have communication problems. In fact, I will start one of them today; I could definitely benefit from that."