Like "Yeah.. in retrospect, I may have been a little over the top in my reply, especially if others kind of expect a different tone from me. It struck me a little at first as whining, and while it may feel good, does not change anything or serve much of any useful purpose. Then again, there are different stages of grief, and now, I can see, the original poster is probably in one of the intermediate stages. And too, we are encouraged to ask for help and advice, so I was a bit out of like, and I offer my apologies. I also have to remember, I've had over a dozen years to adjust to having this condition, and in truth, was probably just as bad at declaring the unfairness of having to deal with this, so am doubly out of line."