Like "I'm not going to use the whole take care of yourself first thing, cuz that's already been stated on here (and is important). I am going to say that I completely understand what your going thru.... My husband also has heart issues and I am constantly on him about it. I have figured out one thing though...it is always easier to worry about someone else than it is to take care of yourself...I used to use the excuse of I don't have time to take care of myself because I am so busy taking care of everyone else, but I have since realized that was only an excuse. It is so much easier to find excuses than it is to take care of yourself....you have to, cuz if you want that wonderful little girl to stay healthy herself, you have to lead by example...(I have a 5 year old, so I get an idea of what your saying). I have begun walking more, eating better, and have realized that the better I feel the easier it is for me to take care of everyone else...the stress level is lower and I feel better!! Just some thoughts of advice....dont get to down on yourself...this is a very hard thing for anyone to deal with, let alone deal with this and everyone else....go easy on yourself....it will all work out, if you work at it!! Blessed Be Vicki"