Like "You know I think this discuddion is helpful; sometimes people need input from others on a bad day. and pennyhazle, I am one of your friends, and I would like you to stay. Sometimes you just need to read a while to get the nack of how to use the site to your advantage, and sometimes you do have a couple of bad days, don't go, we all will try to help, I would start, if you want to talk in private just send a message."