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Pellet
By Pellet Latest Reply 2010-11-30 21:34:05 -0600
Started 2010-11-29 09:02:04 -0600

Hello, Im new to this site and have been around a couple of other sites for the last couple of years. I was diognosed with diabetied in May 2008, 2 months later my oldest sister died from complications of diabeties and she was ravaged with eyes ,heart, strokes and kidneys. I am a colon cancer survivor since MAY 2006. My youngest son, who is now 24 made a comment that I had to ponder but realized he was trying to make lighten the moment. He said that "WOW", first cancer then his mom with breast cancer, he said look at the genes you guys are passing on to us. I responded by telling him that since my cancer treatment caused me to put on 30 lbs that he better get busy because he has some big genes to fill when I am gone. He is a fit 30" waist, goes to the gym and runs marathons. He doesnt really make me out to be a poor gene pool but I think it has made all four of my sons know that living healthy is a neccessity. I tell them that if they have learned from my health then one of my goals for my family has been met,their good health. Since diabeties runs rampid on both sides of my family and in fact my grandmother died while in a diabetice coma, it never did get talked about in our family but no one in our family of 8 kids was diognosed until later in adult life. As life stands right now, I dont want to dwell on what might have been because there is still alot to be done but to take "what is" and learn from it but also to teach my grandkids and sons as I learn.


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sisson
sisson 2010-11-30 21:34:05 -0600 Report

I was blest because because both of my parents past from other illness and so did my grandmothers on my father side they were 92 + the oldest was 115 my moms dad heart problems due to dieabetus. Today I was at my daughter home and I never knew how much the kids payed attion to what we say and my daughter pourd me a little soda and Josa said grandma that has sugar I wanted to cry and I told him for thinking of me.

alanbossman
alanbossman 2010-11-29 23:01:02 -0600 Report

I to lost both of my grandmothers to diabetes and also my uncle none of them took very good care of them self. So I try very hard to keep mine in check.
Alan

realsis77
realsis77 2010-11-29 10:52:21 -0600 Report

Best wishes to you. I lost my grandmother to diabetes.I'm terified and I'm trying to really keep a nice tigh control on my numbers. With my insulins it seems to be working out well.

Harlen
Harlen 2010-11-29 10:37:24 -0600 Report

My mom died as well from complications from D
Maybe thats why I take care of it ????
Good job with the boys
Best wishes
Harlen

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