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KarenC226
By KarenC226 Latest Reply 2010-08-04 15:45:32 -0500
Started 2010-08-02 21:47:27 -0500

I have been very careful after watching what diabetes did to my father. When the phone rang today and my doctor's nurse told me that I have diabetes all I could think was I knew it. After taking care of him and my mother for the last 7 to 8 years of their lives I know what I have to watch for and what not to eat. What I still can not adjust to is the fact that even though I did everything to avoid becoming diabetic, I am. At least I have one thing on my side I never was a big sweet eater so I will not have that hurdle to get over and I also know how important it is to care of my feet and to eat right. Still have to say it is a whole different ball of wax when your the one who is diagonsed.


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ONeil
ONeil 2010-08-04 05:04:36 -0500 Report

welcome ,you are Right ,I have seen my mother -in-law, step -mother past away with it , and knowing that my father ,uncle, all have diabeties and still living it is very hard. but you have to try very hard to keep your BS more under contoll, and not only that It dose run in the family some people get it very early and some later in life, So you might just have the jeans from your parents, Yes it is a hole dall of wax knowing that you have diabeties. just take one day at a time and do the very best that you can on keeping under controll. I have had diabeties for three years now and stll learning very day,
I wish you all the best and Take care

Anna

KarenC226
KarenC226 2010-08-04 11:03:20 -0500 Report

I have come to this understanding in my mind: I can not change what is happening to my body, but I can fight it all the way. I will not let Diabetes control me I am going to control it. I know its going to be a bitter fight between the two of us but I am not going to lay down and let it win.
I am also going to use my affection as a tool to teach my daughter how to eat right so if some day she inherits this ( God Forbid )she will at least be one step ahead of me. Now I just wish she could give me some the energy she has. lol

KarenC226
KarenC226 2010-08-03 16:21:03 -0500 Report

Thanks guys, I know carbs are what I have to watch and its going to kill me I love pastas. I know it will take some adjusting and a bit of time but I will get it.

MAYS
MAYS 2010-08-03 16:53:29 -0500 Report

You can still have pasta, try a low carbohydrate pasta.
My favorites are tri-color pastas.
~Mays~

KarenC226
KarenC226 2010-08-03 17:50:17 -0500 Report

I have been looking into the different pastas and trying to find the right kinds of grain for my breads and such. I love to make home made foods and my brothers are bummed, because they know when I start changing foods they are going to be stuck tihe it as well. They live with me and already complain because I rarley( if ever) fry foods, but when I take the potatoes and gravy off the table they are going to have cows.

KarenC226
KarenC226 2010-08-04 11:10:15 -0500 Report

I feel I have to explain a bit here. Do the auto parts factories closing down here it put my brothers out of jobs. I could not let them live on the streets or in shelters. I was raised family came first and me being the older sister, when mom passed away I became the mother hen.

MAYS
MAYS 2010-08-04 11:37:01 -0500 Report

No explanation needed, my "Interesting" statement was directed at your love for making home made foods and trying to find the right grains for your breads and such.
I love to cook, and I love it when others feel the same way !

(((Hugs Help))) ~Mays~

KarenC226
KarenC226 2010-08-04 13:30:03 -0500 Report

Cooking is my way off letting stress go. Nothing like kneading a ball of dough or whipping up eggs to get things worked out. lol

PetiePal
PetiePal 2010-08-03 09:11:48 -0500 Report

Sweet eater or not if you're a carb girl it can be just as bad!

Echoing Harlen it's not your fault either…at first I did a lot of self-blaming and feeling sorry for myself bc I thought it was all my fault. It was more a when not if in my family really.

Educate yourself as much as possible and get your doctor appointments in order and you'll be on a good track.

Harlen
Harlen 2010-08-03 08:44:24 -0500 Report

Hello and welcome
First I would like you to know that its not your folt you did not do this to you!
With all you already know you know how to take care of it.Or a good start anyway It is hard to deal with diabetis and knowing you have it.
Best wishes
Harlen

RAYT721
RAYT721 2010-08-03 05:25:29 -0500 Report

There's hope to control the numbers which is half of the battle. Whether diabetic or not the healthiest diet for anyone is the one you are about to embark on. You don't have to give up anything… you just have to use portion control, weight control, emotional control, get more sleep, get more water and you can still live a long and happy life without complications. We are all here for you and welcome you to our little community. It is good that you have more education than alot of us have gotten with our diagnoses. Please let me know if there's anything that I can do or say to help you. Here on DC, we all work together with the support, encouragement and motivation. As a disease there was nothing you could do not to become diabetic. Family history plays into it alot. Some things you can change… some things you cannot.