Sex, my love closed the door

By pissoff50woman Latest Reply 2010-07-24 08:35:01 -0500
Started 2010-05-18 12:51:36 -0500

My love don't want to get close, because * thinks I will die while I'm with *. I had a bad time my one meter read my BS as low, but at the Hosp. it was in the 900, I had to that family leave and lost my job, because of the good old boy club!

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pissoff50woman 2010-07-24 08:35:01 -0500 Report

You know it is hard to work your ass off all you life, I never stop helping my family. I made myself work jobs that were not for woman, just to get the jobs that pay good money,to help my family. Now I feel like everyone and everything has left me. EVEN THIS DISCUSSION GROUP!!!!! None of you people want to help anyone that is really bad off…

pissoff50woman 2010-07-13 01:31:52 -0500 Report

I'm working on myself, trying not to hold the bar up so high on myself. It hard to have diabetes I never had to watch everything so close. I think I try to hard to keep my BS right on the mark. You know at my job that fired me it is ok to have a heart attack,and come back to work, but because I have diabetes,and I come back to work,they made me feel couldn't do my job, because I had check my BS. I got a 5% raised the year before they fried me,the new bosses the took over said I couldn't do my job, the one I got a raise for. That Bull…t that hard to get over, I did it for 16yrs. Thanks to City of Lawrence!!!!!!!

bace 2010-05-22 12:25:13 -0500 Report

maybe check your BS and let him see the numbers…before and after…maybe be sure to eat a quick small he knows your sugar will be ok, not go low during… and maybe double check the monitor…? good luck.

pissoff50woman 2010-06-05 10:42:50 -0500 Report

No I think * use this to back away, and new flash my lover is a woman.We have been together over 13yrs.

GabbyPA 2010-06-06 17:44:35 -0500 Report

You would think she would be even more empathetic to your situation. You are just as likely to have a low walking down the street or by skipping a meal or getting too much insulin....just like anything we do, we have to plan a little better is all.

GabbyPA 2010-05-18 15:44:17 -0500 Report

How long have you been diagnosed? Maybe if you both attend some classes together it would help? I brought my husband to a couple of my diabetes education classes and he got a lot of understanding out of them too. If he is that afraid that he might cause a "deadly" low, you want to reassure him that he won't.

There are also steps you can take about your job. If they fired you because of your diabetes, then you need to find a lawyer who understands discrimination law.

pissoff50woman 2010-05-20 20:29:03 -0500 Report

the good old boy's cover very well. No * was there, learning along with me, just got the wall up, BAD!

GabbyPA 2010-05-20 20:46:27 -0500 Report

Well...I have to say that if this is your boyfriend, I would move on now. If a relationship is going to work, the whole in sickness and in health thing applies. Just today I was talking to my husband and he is very adamant about not smoking. When he was dating he wanted to make sure the girl he married was going to be around. (Much of his family has died from smoking/cancer) I have never smoked in my life, but you never know what the future holds. So today we were chatting and I told him you never know who will go first. I ended up with diabetes...that is not so great. He agreed, but he said he loved and supports me through it. He is not always exactly what I need, but he is always there.

As for your good old boys, you need to stand up for yourself. You need to stand up for others who will follow you. If they did wrong, you need to do all you can to right that wrong, even if it is just letting them know that you are watching them for the next time. Get a hold of a TV station and let them know what happened. Make sure there is no "reason" that they have given other than your diabetes. There are a lot of things that you can fight them on.