I am back!

lipsie
By lipsie Latest Reply 2011-03-30 20:09:10 -0500
Started 2010-01-26 11:49:03 -0600

Hey everyone! Sorry I was gone so long. I was hopsitalized for my emotions first due to my husband's abusive behavior (we are now getting a divorce) end up with pnmonia there at that hospital, got out and my computer was down…had to have that fixed, meanwhile ended up back into another hopsital for the pnmonia (I know I am spelling that wrong) again, not sure if got it back or never got rid of it but got it ten times worse so was hospitalized for that…so here I am finally. I have missed you all very much!! Have I missed anything? How is everyone? Hugs! Sheila


24 replies

pixsidust
pixsidust 2011-03-30 20:09:10 -0500 Report

Sheila I joined since you were gone. I want to encourage you during this hard and harsh time in your life. It is easy when you have been put down, betrayed and rejected to see yourself through the eyes of the abuser…to somehow quietly think you must not be worth anything because of what they think…to think life is not worth living because of what they think. The pain of rejection is the hardest thing in the world.

I want you to see yourself through the eyes of those who care about you.
To love yourself and to see all the good that you are. I have always thought that those who abuse are small themselves, and take no responsibility for their actions. I assure you that you are better than that.
We all are. I hope you get well and stay well.

Pleased to meet you and hope we can be friends. Be of good courage, good faith, strong, persevering, knowing you are loved, & trust tomorrow will bring the sun again

Pam from KCMO
Pam from KCMO 2010-01-27 06:00:23 -0600 Report

How nice to see your smiling face again, Sheila. Divorce is hard - been there, done that myself - and I congratulate you on what I'm sure was a difficult decision. It's a step toward your health and well-being, so GOOD FOR YOU!

Take good care of yourself - the pneumonia sounds awful! Is it all gone now?

ferk01
ferk01 2010-01-27 02:21:59 -0600 Report

I am so glad you are feeling much better and made the decision about your husband. Abuse is never acceptable. I also hope you feel physically better. Welcome back

jayabee52
jayabee52 2010-01-27 01:47:09 -0600 Report

Howdy Sheila

Glad you're back! Sorry to learn of the abuse & the divorce. I suspect that it is pretty painful right now. It is never fun either for the divorcer or the divorced. The main thing is that you take time to take care of yourself.

Praying for your continued healing and blessings in your personal life. All the best! ~James~

dyanne
dyanne 2010-01-27 01:13:23 -0600 Report

HI I WAS JUST WONDERING THE OTHER DAY WHERE YOU HAVE BEEN ??? I DIDN'T KNOW IF I HAD MISSED SOMETHING… LIKE U HAD LEFT THE SITE. WELL IM GLAD UR BACK AND SORRY FOR WHAT U HAVE BEEN GOING THROUGH. HOPE U FEEL BETTER SOON!!
HUGS DYANNE

Pat Roth
Pat Roth 2010-01-26 23:05:56 -0600 Report

Hi, Sheila!! with the divorce hopefully will come Peace—and nothing is ever just one person's fault—my own situation is now being viewed differently in my home town, if I hadn't had the support of these kind folks, including YOU, I probably would have thrown in the towel, but who can quit on this site and LIVE WITH THEMSELVES!! Bless you and Welcome HOME!! Pat R

Two painful feet
Two painful feet 2010-01-26 21:14:45 -0600 Report

Hi! I so sorry that you have been so sick and going through a davorce at the same time. I hope you are able to take care of yourself. Can you get someone to come in and check on you. So glad you are back.

JoAnna
ps. as you can see I can't spell :)

jayabee52
jayabee52 2010-01-27 01:52:30 -0600 Report

I don't care if you can spell or not. As I wrote in your recent discussion thread. not gone just looking" ~ "those who are spelling snobs can just KISS MY GRITS! LoL!"

Two painful feet
Two painful feet 2010-01-26 21:08:24 -0600 Report

Hi! I so sorry that you have been so sick and going through a davorce at the same time. I hope you are able to take care of yourself. Can you get someone to come in and check on you. So glad you are back.

JoAnna

London
London 2010-01-26 20:16:31 -0600 Report

Sorry about your situation. Hopefully everything turns out for the better. Keep your head held high! Were glad to have u back:)

Hinboyz3
Hinboyz3 2010-01-26 17:19:19 -0600 Report

Hi Sheila, Im glad your back you've been missed. Hope your doing and feeling better, everything will work out for the best, I will keep you in my prayers. Stand strong and keep your health up, its only one you, hugs.

daniel velazco
daniel velazco 2010-01-26 17:44:49 -0600 Report

Hi Sheila,
I wondered what happen to you. It's great to have you back, just take good care of yourself and keep us informed of how your doing. Dan

hbkunkel
hbkunkel 2010-01-26 12:30:03 -0600 Report

Welcome back! I have missed your smiling face:). Hope you are really on the road to recovery from your recent illness and emotional stress that a divorce brings on. Keep us posted how everything is going.
Betsie

donna13
donna13 2010-01-26 12:24:04 -0600 Report

So sorry for all you've been through. But maybe now that you are getting your personal life on track, maybe your health problems will lessen. There's a track here about stress, and what it can cause. I hope you can now focus on your health more.

BIRDY
BIRDY 2010-01-26 12:22:45 -0600 Report

welcome back Sheila , I trust that better days are very close to you…
All the best.
Birdy

AddassaMari
AddassaMari 2010-01-26 12:19:11 -0600 Report

All that and still standing tall. And there are those that say women are weak, lot they know. Glad you are back, now take care of you. There is a time for everything including a time to be selfish (not scriptural, but you know what I mean), so take care of you.

Susie624
Susie624 2010-01-26 12:06:38 -0600 Report

welcome back,you were missed very much.Lots of new member,recipes and just plain old love from all.Hugs Linda

alanbossman
alanbossman 2010-01-26 11:55:34 -0600 Report

Glad your back sorry about your divorce and all glad you made it through all your ills and back home Iam doing fine a1c in two weeks fingers crossed.
Hugs Alan