Would like to say thanks to everyone

By PANTOUS Latest Reply 2010-01-19 03:17:34 -0600
Started 2010-01-12 19:14:21 -0600

I got a call from the Doctor today to say it was a mistake I am not having a baby. The frist test said yes the second said No!
Have to get more test done on Thursday. It's so upsetting. I was scared but excited! Anyway I would like to say Thank you to all of you for your great support system you have in place here.
I will probalby be off for a couple of days to relax. Talk to all of you soon

17 replies

salmanda 2010-01-17 11:26:10 -0600 Report

I am sorry to hear your news. I hope and pray that you get pregnant as soon as possible. In the meantime rest and think positively. I know that is going to be hard after such a disappointment.
Take care,
Sal :)

Sue Turner
Sue Turner 2010-01-17 11:07:40 -0600 Report

Pantous, take all the time you need to relax and destress…Hopefully you will get some positive news from your doctor when you see him/her…We are all here for you when you need someone to vent to…You are in our prayers…

Pat Roth
Pat Roth 2010-01-15 13:29:13 -0600 Report

So sorry for your mixed news, uncerainty just tears one up so glad that you can relax, read a good book or whatever helps you to feel more positive, maybe just listening to some soothing music. I wasn't diabetic at the time, but I got pregnant without trying the FIrst time, then wanted another child in 2 years for company, as I had been an only child, was a bit upset as I couldn't seem to get pregnant then, had my tubes blown out etc, FINALLY had a girl a year later that PLANNED! haha—I just have to laugh as I got pg when least expected, then vice-versa—so when I hear "Planned Parenthood" I have to laugh, it was so stressful for me, and I wasn't even a diabetic then. This was before birth control pills too, although I hear that they present their own system of uncertainties!

Good Luck, rest and relax and God Bless!! You arent alone and may you soon get a definite answer! Hugs, Pat R

imsuzie2 2010-01-13 03:20:43 -0600 Report

Donna, I am so sorry for your disappointment. I know that scary excitement, and the tremendous letdown . I know after a few days of rest and relaxion will begin to help, and we are here to help in any way we can. May angels surround you and your husband and give you both comfort. Hugs

cc9 2010-01-13 00:41:37 -0600 Report

hugs and loving thoughts with you while you take some time out. we are with you.

jayabee52 2010-01-13 00:28:17 -0600 Report

I am sorry to learn of your disappointing news. My wife and I will keep you in our prayers. Take it easy, but please don't stay away too long. ~James~

Kirla 2010-01-12 22:18:01 -0600 Report


Me and my wife have wanted a child for years. We got married in 1988 and never had any children. In 2002 I left the house to go to the library, to use the Internet and about an hour later when I got home, I found my wife on the bathroom floor. She couldn’t move. The pain in her stomach was so great she wasn’t able to move. I was able to get her from the bathroom to the bed with great difficulty. I was going to try and get here to the emergency room but could not get her to move. I called 911 and an hour later an ambulance arrived and they carried her out of the house on a stretcher. To make a long story short, the doctor came and told me my wife was pregnant. She sounded like it was a good thing. A few hours later when another doctor, that was going to do the surgery, told me that she had a tubular pregnancy and we were going to lose the baby. We have been hoping to have a child and when I was told she was pregnant it sounded like a good thing. Then all of a sudden, all our dreams were crushed. I know how you feel and am sorry things didn’t work out better for you.

God bless

imsuzie2 2010-01-13 03:21:59 -0600 Report

Kevin, how hard that must have been for you and your wife to go thru, and how special you are to share this hurt with us. G-G bless you as well. S2

salmanda 2010-01-17 11:23:41 -0600 Report

I am so sorry that you had to go through all that. Thank you for sharing. I am sure it is helping Donna as well as you in getting it written. God bless,
Sal :)

spiritwalker 2010-01-12 22:12:09 -0600 Report

The stress, and the ups and downs can be terrible.
Its good you have a couple of days to try and rest.
Will be thinking of you and keep you in prayer.
Good luck with your tests.

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