needing to vent

By GCKJRWISFE Latest Reply 2009-12-27 19:55:00 -0600
Started 2009-12-26 21:17:11 -0600

…Can anyone give me any ideas with getting help when the person treats you mean and such i am trying to be very understanding and all its a new way of life but it gets hard … he came from a stressful life I just found out he was home less and such and didnt know he was diabetic.. i hate running to his family and i know they support me and all but I dont want to disappoint them.. they love me for all this.. We have gone rounds about him helping in the apt and all when i know he can do it he has shown me… he I feel wants every one to feel sorry for him since he survived a d coma .. we are so grateful he survived and we all prayed hard for him .. but he keeps reminded … i dont expect alot only for him to clean up after himself and keep his body clean and respect me and people who want to help him and not treat them like dirt … i am sorry to vent like this … thank you for reading … i am asking too much…Please pray for me

3 replies

Harlen 2009-12-27 16:49:11 -0600 Report

You cant make somone take care of them selfs it up to them to do it
And its up to you just how much you will put up with ?????
We all get depressed form this diabetes
some take it out on them sefs and others take it out on others
The job is hard and last the rest of my life.but I will live with it.
Dont be down on your self you can only do what you can do the rest is up to him???
Best wishes

GCKJRWISFE 2009-12-27 19:55:00 -0600 Report

Thank you all I cant thank you enough for putting up with me venting …he had a deal with his family that when he wanted to go back to being homeless they would come up with the money i told them I have the money and if he wants to go back to that life then i will buy him a plane ticket i live 2000 feet from the nearest run way in seatac wash every time he gets poor me and yelling i say well say the word i will pack u things and bring u back to the air port and sent u back and he gets quite or when he gets bossy stop being my manager and be my husband … THANKS ALL FOR LETTING ME VENT
I am sorry if that was mean but what else can i do what do you all think .. please I value your thoughts

hbkunkel 2009-12-27 06:31:42 -0600 Report

Catherine, you are in my thoughts and prayers. Your situation sounds just like my brother-in-law - oh pity me. Well, it is a very hard position to be in. Get help for yourself - outside counseling and try to implement anything they suggest. Having a drug and alcholic son, tough love is also needed but very hard to implement. Keep us posted and God bless you.