I'm back with my friends!

phatgirl
By phatgirl Latest Reply 2009-12-22 22:29:31 -0600
Started 2009-12-09 14:46:54 -0600

Well i'm back after along moping session! I have had 2 dear family members pass recently. And I do Not handle death well.I have been feeling sorry for MYSELF…Because I know they both went to be with our LORD.


9 replies

salmanda
salmanda 2009-12-22 20:14:59 -0600 Report

Hello,
I am sorry for you loss phatgirl. I hope the days ahead are not too difficult for you. Holidays after losing a loved one are hard. Time softens the pain…until then try to lean a little on friends.
Hugs,
Sal:)

Pat Roth
Pat Roth 2009-12-09 23:15:26 -0600 Report

And we greet you with open arms! I have been fortunate in not losing too many friends or family, close together! The loss of my 98 yr old mom, 2 years ago about ruined me as I felt too responsible for her welfare, after my dad left her and I when I was 8 yrs old!! I KNEW that it was all my fault and I was in charge of my devastated mother!!! Then he returned when I was 14 yrs and life was supposed to be great! Not, but will not go into that——everyone has their own story and pain!! May we all help you to work thru your own grief!! Warm hugs, PAT R

phatgirl
phatgirl 2009-12-22 20:12:07 -0600 Report

THAN'K everyone! I'm trying. I sure do have some very good friends on here for sure. I hate depression. Who does"nt? I hope everyone is ready for a GREAT CHRISTMAS!! I am this year.anyone have snow yet? I live in a VERY,VERY SMALL town in oklahoma …called EUCHA. We have'nt had any yet. But suppose to on Christmas day.WOOOO…HOOOOOO…

Pat Roth
Pat Roth 2009-12-22 22:29:31 -0600 Report

Hi, I live in a small town on the Okl/Ks border, and we have had no snow either—just COLD! Wind is to blow tomorrow—possibility of ice—-which I can do without!! haha

So glad that you are coming out of your depression—Depression is the PITS!! But with friends and God, you can crawl out and live again!! Love and hugs, Pat R

Kira_xo
Kira_xo 2009-12-09 23:09:09 -0600 Report

I am sorry for your losses! I too have had a couple deaths in the family so I completely understand. *hugs!*

Hinboyz3
Hinboyz3 2009-12-09 17:06:39 -0600 Report

I do know how you feel and Im so sorry for you losses. I pray that you stay strong and healthy. You know you have really good friends here that care about you, and are willing to hold your hand thru tough times, so don't stay away so long!! The days out in front of you will get better with time.

Monalisa
Monalisa 2009-12-09 15:49:03 -0600 Report

HI PHATGIRL I'M SORRY FOR YOUR LOSSES, I CAN UNDERSTAND HOW YOU FEEL, I LOST MY IN-LAWS AND MY MOTHER ONE EACH MONTH STARTING ON FEBRUARY THEN TWO CLOSE FRIENDS AND 3 OF MY DOGS ALL THIS YEAR AND I WAS REALLY DEPPRESSED, SO HANG IN THERE AND TAKE YOUR TIME TO DWELL, WHAT MATTERS MOST IS THE GOOD TIMES YOU SHARED AND THE MEMORIES YOU TREASURE.