The Back Nine Yards - And then it is winter

By RebDee Latest Reply 2015-01-08 18:17:53 -0600
Started 2015-01-07 11:25:13 -0600

I received this from an old friend today and because it is thought provoking albeit off topic, I thought my friends at DC would enjoy it.


You know … time has a way of moving quickly and catching you unaware of the passing years. It seems just yesterday that I was young, just married and embarking on my new life with my mate. Yet in a way, it seems like eons ago, and I wonder where all the years went. I know that I lived them all. I have glimpses of how it was back then and of all my hopes and dreams.

But, here it is… the back nine of my life and it catches me by surprise…How did I get here so fast? Where did the years go and where did my youth go?

I remember well seeing older people through the years and thinking that those older people were years away from me and that I was only on the first hole and the back nine was so far off that I could not fathom it or imagine fully what it would be like.

But, here it is…my friends are retired and getting gray…they move slower and I see an older person now. Some are in better and some worse shape than me…but, I see the great change…Not like the ones that I remember who were young and vibrant…but, like me, their age is beginning to show and we are now those older folks that we used to see and never thought we'd become.

Each day now, I find that just getting a shower is a real target for the day! And taking a nap is not a treat anymore… it's mandatory! Cause if I don't on my own free will.. I just fall asleep where I sit!

And so…now I enter into this new season of my life unprepared for all the aches and pains and the loss of strength and ability to go and do things that I wish I had done but never did!! But, at least I know, that though I’m on the back nine, and I'm not sure how long it will last…this I know, that when it's over on this earth…it's over. A new adventure will begin! Yes, I have regrets. There are things I wish I hadn't done…things I should have done, but indeed, there are many things I'm happy to have done. It's all in a lifetime.

So, if you're not on the back nine yet…let me remind you, that it will be here faster than you think. So, whatever you would like to accomplish in your life please do it quickly! Don't put things off too long!! Life goes by quickly. So, do what you can today, as you can never be sure whether you’re on the back nine or not!

You have no promise that you will see all the seasons of your life…so, live for today and say all the things that you want your loved ones to remember…and hope that they appreciate and love you for all the things that you have done for them in all the years past!!

"Life" is a gift to you. The way you live your life is your gift to those who come after. Make it a fantastic one. LIVE IT WELL! ENJOY TODAY! DO SOMETHING FUN! BE HAPPY ! HAVE A GREAT DAY Remember "It is health that is real wealth and not pieces of gold and silver . LIVE HAPPY IN 2015!

~Your kids are becoming you…but your grandchildren are perfect!
~Going out is good.. Coming home is better!
~You forget names… But it's OK because some people forgot they even knew you!!!
~You realize you're never going to be really good at anything like golf.
~The things you used to care to do, you aren't as interested in anymore, but you really do care that you aren't as interested.
~You sleep better on a lounge chair with the TV 'ON' than in bed. It's called "pre-sleep".
~You miss the days when everything worked with just an "ON" and "OFF" switch..
~You tend to use more 4 letter words … "what?"…"when?"… ???
~You notice everything they sell in stores is "sleeveless"?!!!
~What used to be freckles are now liver spots.
~Everybody whispers.
~You have 3 sizes of clothes in your closet… 2 of which you will never wear.

~~~But Old is good in some things: Old Songs, Old movies, and best of all, OLD FRIENDS !!

Stay well, "OLD FRIEND!" Send this on to other "Old Friends!" and let them laugh in AGREEMENT!!! It's Not What You Gather, But What You Scatter That Tells What Kind Of Life You Have Lived.


“Do Not Regret Growing Older.
It is a Privilege Denied to Many.”

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13 replies

handmashed 2015-01-08 14:23:24 -0600 Report

Oboy… I wish I could print that!! You are a wonderful writer!! Thank you for such an eye opening perspective!!

lilleyheidi 2015-01-08 00:03:56 -0600 Report

This is wonderful. I love my life more and more the older I get, I appreciate things I just didn't "get" when I was younger. Once I made the decision to get happy, I've not looked back on life. I miss certain things, like bundling up and going sledding, but instead I enjoy sitting by the fire reading a book and enjoying a sugar free hot cocoa. Life is good, if you let it be. I'm sorry to those of you who lost loved ones too early in life, God bless you. Heidi

RebDee 2015-01-08 00:57:59 -0600 Report

A friend asked me to go sledding with him. I said no, I would sit by the fire and drink cocoa and look through the window and watch him sled but that was as close to snow as I would like to get. He thought I was kidding him. NOPE. I'm no dope. I moved from Philadelphia for work and to get away from cold weather and snow. I don't "go to the snow".

Grandmama16 2015-01-07 17:50:02 -0600 Report

That is great!! I'd like to send it to a few but looks like I'll have to do it by Facebook and they aren't all on that. I tried and it says error. Now what? I'm so tired of password, signing in and all. My BG has been up too…one night to 300. Tested again, 290. Used the lesser Wallmart tester 168…that's better. This morning 150 tho.

sweetslover 2015-01-07 16:11:08 -0600 Report

Oh, I love this. It is so true. My mind keeps telling me I can do certain things, but my body replies, "You've got to be kidding!"

GabbyPA 2015-01-07 13:22:00 -0600 Report

This is a lot of fun to read and to consider. I am too getting to the peak of my mountain and looking at the decent. But I have no regrets and if I go tomorrow, I will be satisfied. Life has given me great experiences.

I do really like what you share at the end. "Do not regret growing older. It is a privilege denied to many" One would be my younger brother.

RebDee 2015-01-07 14:17:42 -0600 Report

Sorry to hear about your brother. I worry about my sister who is 3 1/2 years younger than I am. I may have Diabetes (which is a family trait) but she has MS and is now in a wheelchair. So I worry about her.

GabbyPA 2015-01-07 14:25:25 -0600 Report

My brother was taken in a horrible road accident. He used to drive a tanker truck and one wet stormy night he was hit head on. He enjoyed his life and at least left behind a beautiful daughter. He was 37.

sweetslover 2015-01-07 16:14:28 -0600 Report

I lost my brother to a road accident when he was 23. His daughter was born a month later. After more than 40 years, the loss is still there, but it has taught me a lot about appreciating and living the life I have.

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