Some welcome!! I am Out of Here!

By Latest Reply 2009-04-26 07:47:33 -0500
Started 2009-04-23 12:31:35 -0500

I thought this might be a good message board to join, but given the personal attacks I am out of here! I give my answer to a question and get called Idiotic!

21 replies

Advocate 2 Lisa
Advocate 2 Lisa 2009-04-25 23:34:11 -0500 Report

Hello… I just joined and you were the first one to respond to what I wrote!! I found what you had to say, to be very helpful and I saw you as a caring and loving dad towards your son and all he was going through… Actually your comments touched me, and your son is extremly lucky to have some-one like you in his corner… Don't listen to other people comments, you can only be you and you were only trying to express yourself, and not every-one is going to always like what we have to say. However, people need to remember, they need to agree to disagree some-times, that is only fair… Lisa KEEP UP YOUR LOVING HEART FOR YOUR SON, CHIN UP, YOUR A GREAT, LOVING DAD WHOM ONLY WANTS THE BEST FOR HIS SON, AND FAMILY TO BOOT!!! Lisa Smile…

2009-04-24 11:39:08 -0500 Report

Please try to relax off and say in other subject, we know what you mean by that we do not want to talk about their feels bt you give yourself deep down so fly away up in the mountains there is lots pretty rocks too

maryka48 2009-04-24 11:30:22 -0500 Report

Lets face it we are all here to help one another, not to attack people…we get help from the people on this site by asking questions, we may not like their answers but we are asking for advice from them..everyone has been very helpful to me because of my own diabetes, but my young son was recently diagnosed I recieved so much support from everyone and I truly appreciate everyone…

Mary Kay

2009-04-24 11:04:32 -0500 Report

If I were to leave bec. I don't understand as long as I'm deaf sitting on the tree with my dog would I be "Idiots"?

2009-04-24 07:38:03 -0500 Report

Maybe they means you missed what they were talking about or try to help you You should stand and disscuss with them you will feel grateful.

DJ 2009-04-24 07:31:27 -0500 Report

Neil,I have debated with myself as to wether I should say anything here..and I decided to follow my heart and say what I find there.
My sincere apologies if you felt I was calling you Idiotic..I was not,and it was never my intention for you to take my words in that manner.I honestly felt your re-buff of my discussion response was not constructive, and I felt hurt by it…so, I let my emotions get the better of me..and for this I apologize, I usually have a cooler head and try to see what people say as their opinion and leave it at that.
Please do not leave because of some silly this is a wonderful site,with a great deal of useful info and alot of Helpful,Loving,Careing,People!! I am only one small voice here,and really not worth your leaving over..again my sincere apologies.

John Crowley
John Crowley 2009-04-24 10:21:45 -0500 Report

DJ, thank you for your thoughtful and mature response. I really appreciate it.

DJ 2009-04-24 10:49:53 -0500 Report

You are most welcome John,I truely never intended to cause any problem..and I am very sorry and apologize to the wonderful membership of this site..and I know better than to allow my emotions to get the better of me…and I do hope Neil will accept my heart-felt apologies as well, because I do not want any bad feeling with anyone here or to be the cause of anyone leaving..I feel very bad that this has happened.

DJ 2009-04-24 11:51:54 -0500 Report

My goodness..was I really being Un-human?? Actually I kind of thought maybe I was being to human, and that's how I got into this situation..LOL,LOL
I am glad you are here also,and thank-you from the bottom of my "Lil Ole Lady Heart"!!

John Crowley
John Crowley 2009-04-23 14:30:58 -0500 Report

I'm sorry that you're upset by what has happened. Online forums do tend to run into trouble from time to time because of misunderstandings. I think if you'll stick around a little longer, you'll see that this really a great place with many, many helpful people.

We do our best to monitor the site and keep any threads from becoming too heated or offensive.

So, of course, you have the freedom to leave if that's what you feel is best. But please realize that we do try out best to make everyone feel welcome.


2009-04-23 14:21:52 -0500 Report

who says "Idiots: ????
We are Here to help you out to make the best of yourself, Smiles!

Frustrated mom
Frustrated mom 2009-04-23 13:42:54 -0500 Report

I am really sorry that you feel like you have to leave, this is really a great sight…Not everyone is going to agree with everyone and everyting all the time. But if you feel strong about leaving, I wish you the best…

bigjrm45 2009-04-23 13:38:05 -0500 Report

like in a family not every one see's eye to eye,we each have are own veiws on every thing,nobody wants to take that away from you

Sarguillo 2009-04-23 13:25:28 -0500 Report

I just followed the your threads and answers and found the thread you are refering to. Im sorry you feel you have to leave. You were not called an idiot. Your suggestiong that age has no bearing on treatment was called idiotic.
Doesnt matter that an 81 year old man won an iron man marathon.
DOnt take this wrong, but you attacked first. of course, that is just what we can see since you have since edited your original responses about 30 minutes ago. We are all human. We are all expressing our opinion. Its just our opinion. DOesnt make it right nor wrong. Its all worth less than 2 cents. it doesnt cost anyone anyting to listen to it, so that is what its worth. You are human, have a mind. you can accept to read it and accept it or not accept it. We will be sorry to loose you.

alwaystryin 2009-04-23 12:41:11 -0500 Report

There is a River called de'nial, I live in it or near it every day. Some days it is harder than most to stay away from it.

Anonymous 2009-04-23 14:09:13 -0500 Report

What do You mean? I feel like that way I'm Deaf I used to help any peole when I used to have my legs but now I'm handicapped due to my diabetic and I'm out of their society so I have my sense to use and I go there ospeak out to help them I feel better it is the sense no rock to control sense is to control of ur mind, so Smiles will matters up. ur friend Champ!

Advocate 2 Lisa
Advocate 2 Lisa 2009-04-25 23:45:44 -0500 Report

Hello… My child is special needs, multi handicaped, and disabling… She is 13 years old, and yes also Type 1 diabetic… She is pro-foundly deaf both ears, and losing her eye sight, has diabetes insifidus, and 13 learning disabilities… Do all dr.'s say to do, and does not work out. She falls into this Wolfram/didmoad syndrom which is a nero-degenerate disease on top of the type 1 diabetes, but takes every day in stride… I, mom am also Type 1 diabetic and have been for 26 years now… We both have extremely bad, and needing the insulin pumps to stay alive, for the insulin's going through the needles are and can't work for us any more… My daughter is a troopper, she starts a new each day with my loving hand, and it is tuff, but we both go through this together, as a unitied front… My child is 13 years old, 5 0r 6 emotionally and pshycologically, develomentally 7 or 8 with all learning disabilites, and major, major medical… Remember deaf, and losing eye sight as-well because of this syndrom she has on top of Type 1… we all need to be nice to one another, and agree to disagree, for we are all on here to help each other, and find ways to cope with all we face daily!!! I think we need to remember, we are all in this TOGETHER, AND TRY TO HELP OUT AND INTERVIEN THE BEST WAY WE CAN!!! smile and take great care… and hopes you feel better!!!

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