I know that we (men) can work yoir last nerve (it's not intentional, honest) and we do try to make it up to you at some point (a romantic dinner, diamond rings, flowers) but if the stress that is in your life is not being caused by us, this may interest you:
What causes depression in women?
Scientists are examining many potential causes for and contributing factors to women’s increased risk for depression. It is likely that genetic, biological, chemical, hormonal, environmental, psychological, and social factors all intersect to contribute to depression.
Scientists are also studying the influence of female hormones, which change throughout life. Researchers have shown that hormones directly affect the brain chemistry that controls emotions and mood. Specific times during a woman’s life are of particular interest, including puberty; the times before menstrual periods; before, during, and just after pregnancy (postpartum); and just prior to and during menopause (perimenopause).
We (men) can't take the blame for those listed above, but if we are the cause of your depression in life, a few days in the "dog house" should suffice, (it's cold out there!)