Who to talk to....who to help....who is there really?

TsalagiLenape
By TsalagiLenape Latest Reply 2011-10-25 07:16:19 -0500
Started 2011-10-23 08:02:06 -0500

Right now I am not doing so well. I just have high hopes that things will work out later on today. I dont know as of yet but sure do hope so. Most of my closest friends are miles away. I cant get a hold of my therapist. Not sure what that will do anyway. I am sitting here in total confusion as to what to do next. Once I have my answer later on that will be a total different story. I am just hoping for the best. Yet you ever have tha grea need to talk to someone? To have them hold you and help you in the meantime while you wait for answers? Well that is me right now. I am very sad wanting to cry but cant for it will take my BG numbers up. Not knowing is killing me. Waiting for this to happen. I just dont know right now. If you want to know what is what just go to my page and read my recent post on How I feel thingie. Hugs


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margokittycat
margokittycat 2011-10-23 23:00:35 -0500 Report

Good luck! Stick it to him where it hurts. He deserves whatever it is he gets. He has not been very nice or much of a husband and the DUI's and drugs you nor the kids needs to be around that. Hon there are places that can help you and the children. Section 8 housing the rent goes off your income. Health and Human services and many many more. Don't stay anywhere near him, sock it to him for child support and spousel support and anything else you can think of. Find an attorney and file for divorce first that gives you the power and gives him none. God Luck and God Bless. Been through this a couple o times, so I have learned and know what to do, not that I will ever have to do it again.

Mickey/CCHT
Mickey/CCHT 2011-10-23 12:15:39 -0500 Report

My goodness you have alot going on. I'm so sorry to hear you are going thru this. But remember, you are on alone. We are all here for you and you savior walks with you. Things may seem dark now, but stay strong in your faith and God will show you the way. Things have to change to get better. You are in my prayers. God Bless you. Mickey…P.S. A good cry will help cleanse your soul, let it out if you need to!

Gabby
GabbyPA 2011-10-23 08:34:45 -0500 Report

We are here to help in all ways. Crying might raise your levels a bit, but it is good for the soul. Keeping those emotions and worries are bottled up create more stress that will raise your levels anyway. So let it out. Punch a pillow, yell a little and know that it is okay to be upset at what is going on.

Then after you feel a little better, know that you will get through it. You don't see the open doors yet, but they will be out there. Keep your eyes open.

My story is not as emotional as yours, but I was facing at one point the prospect that my family was going to be living in a tent on a friends property. We were loosing our home and I was not working and my husband is in a wheel chair on disability. It was a dark time, but you know what. We looked at tents, we even figured out how we could keep our beds and some furniture in there and build a floor that kept us off the ground. That is how serious we were looking at this. But then, out of the blue, an opportunity opened up for us to move into a house only a mile away from our home, get our home on the market for a short sale and a landlord that is allowing 100% of our rent to go towards our down payment to purchase the house by September of next year.

So all said to say that even though things look really bad and you don't see a way out, there is one or two or even maybe more....you just have to find out what is important to you and keep focused on that. It is not always easy, but seeing that light is one of the most burden lifting things you will experience.

Michael_1960
Michael_1960 2011-10-23 11:02:37 -0500 Report

That is such a sad story, but don't never give up, you must have faith in God and most important is to have faith in yourself, maybe read through the bible sometimes, it will encourage you, it will strengthen you, enlighen you, and to help you to believe in yourself. May God bless you, and keep the faith.

TsalagiLenape
TsalagiLenape 2011-10-23 09:53:54 -0500 Report

I know but the wait is killing me. Hugs

Gabby
GabbyPA 2011-10-24 18:34:00 -0500 Report

I know it is the hardest time. Just start making plans to take care of yourself and your kids. Even if the plans change, at least you are moving forward in some way by planning things. Think outside the box, you can do it.

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