Ignorant People who dont know anything on Diabetes!

TsalagiLenape
By TsalagiLenape Latest Reply 2011-10-18 09:18:25 -0500
Started 2011-10-15 10:30:50 -0500

Yesterday had a person from the local office of the welcoming committee in my area. She was asking if anyone had mental problems on drugs for this and etc. I told her with Diabetes that Depression can happen and I choose not to be drugged up. That I have pills for my nerves just in case but still choose if I can not to use them. The reason I have those pills is due to the husband a year or so ago wanting to kill me. The person who I am married to, supposed to love me, yet wants to kill me? Gee no reason to feel afraid for your life and etc. right? Omg this lady was like pissing me off royally. Harassing my daughter and I over a lie by a person who they have a case open on. Yet they arent doing their jobs even though my daughter and I have told them many various things about this one person which is all truthful. Yet they'd rather believe a lie and harass those who are honest and truthful! Yet this lady wants to come back in two weeks when I wont be in state let alone at home. Well guess what? You dont need to come here anymore. I dont need the stress or crap from them. They should stop bothering my daughter and I and do their dayum jobs. Oh yeah? They dont do that either. OMG! What idiots. Yet my taxpayers money goes to this office? I would say they are doing dereliction of duty to start. I swear if they had the knowledge that my taxpayers money is paying for maybe they'd understand. So I hope now to go and print out papers for their office. Yes this is a vent but not sure what else to do and dont want to be judged by my words. So if you are offended I apologize.


19 replies

Dr Gary
Dr GaryCA 2011-10-17 15:24:44 -0500 Report

Hi! Wow, I can understand why you are so frustrated. It sounds like you are working with someone who has not beeen trained adequately, and you are feeling the results. I don't know this is helpful or not but you might want to consider talking to her supervisor if you feel that her lack of knowledge is going to be harmful to you or your daughter in some way. The system is broken in a lot of ways, and in this tough economy it is only getting worse. Stay in touch with us!

TsalagiLenape
TsalagiLenape 2011-10-18 09:18:25 -0500 Report

Well its the Supervisor as well as the worker. They have people who dont have kids telling me how to take care of my grandson and his mother! I have been changing diapers since I was six and babysitting for 33 years. So they can now stay away from my house. I dont need the stress or crap.

Mickey/CCHT
Mickey/CCHT 2011-10-15 23:29:03 -0500 Report

Vent away. I's very frustrating having to deal with any government offical. I swear they have to take a class about being a total a**hole to get the job! I've never had any good experiences with government officals. A few years ago when i lost my job and was having a hard time i went to apply for foodstamps just until i got back on my feet and because i was drawing some unemployment they acted like i was a mooch or something and then only wanted to give me twenty dollars a month!!! They act like whatever you a asking for is a direct affront to them! No wonder our country is such a mess!! Good Luck!

pixsidust
pixsidust 2011-10-15 20:47:26 -0500 Report

If you reported someone to the child abuse hotline and did not request anonymity then the person reported will know who said what. That maybe (if this is the case) for the retaliation. Cooperate and guard what you say. They look for wrong vs trying to be a help. Get out of that home as soon as you can. I did not realize the depth of controlling abuse you suffer! Love to You!

TsalagiLenape
TsalagiLenape 2011-10-17 06:30:05 -0500 Report

Same person who reported on daughter is the one with an open case that they arent doing squat about. Yes its rough but until I get my schooling done and then clinical and a job, I cant move out yet or whatever. Yet it ticks off the other cause I am still being motivated and strong enough to move forward and smile alll the while. That they no longer are the Universe as they think they should be to me! LOL What a riot. Yet once things are in order they will find out what is what! LOL Love to you! Hugs

froggy1960
froggy1960 2011-10-15 17:48:48 -0500 Report

heres a big hug for you ! you don't have to let those people in your dor with out a judgement or comlaient ,not even if the po po is acomponying them ,VENT AWAY DEAR ! we are here to listen ,my name is joan and i have 2 shoulders and 2 ears just for crying on and to listen.

TsalagiLenape
TsalagiLenape 2011-10-17 06:31:44 -0500 Report

Well Froggy they had their one time visit to the house as per their rules. Now I dont have to do squat. I am going to sick my therapist on them! See if they like the negative crap back. LOL Thank you Wanishi Wado Hugs

Gemm
Gemm 2011-10-15 11:14:57 -0500 Report

Unfortunately I've run into some of those through the years as well that think they know more than we do about what happens in our lives be it an illness, abuse etc. HUGS to you and your daughter and this is a place we can come to and vent. I did that too about a month ago after a bad hospital experience so vent away as added stress can affect a lot of our other problems and make them worse if we don't deal with the stress as it happens.
HUGS again :)

The "like" is because of your strength to come and vent this rather than sit and stew about it. We really do need some other buttons for other responses to some posts lol - a "wtf" button would be a good one for many things LOL

TsalagiLenape
TsalagiLenape 2011-10-17 06:34:02 -0500 Report

What a riot you are! LOL Yes on the WTF button! LOL Better yet I am going to call the Regional Directors office and let it go. LOL Hugs Wanishi Wado Thank you

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