hi to all my dc fam. I've been going thru a situation for about 15 years and I would really like some feed back from you all on this.
some years back I was in a abusive marriage. my husband (my ex husband) was pysically(not enough for the hospital visit), verbally,mentally and emotionally abusive. he tried to keep me isolated by spreading rumors and lies about me in our neighborhoods and on my job and all these people were directed to tell everybody they know, and on and on to keep it going! I only knew about this because I would hear EVERYBODY EVERYWHERE in our small city of gainesville,fl snickering and mumbling about me! some people even started yelling nasty comments my way! others decided to go online to spread this madness! every single time I have tried to talk with people (family, friends, etc.) they always act like they dont know anything about it or i'm just hearing things! some of it is because it is rumored that something really bad will happen to me if they talk to me (not true and a clear abusive technique!) and some is because some of them mumble at me too.
now all these years later, 3 teenage kids, a boyfriend of almost 4 yrs and even moved to alt, ga some of this mess is still going on! I've tried to talk about this with my boyfriend but he maintains that its my imagination and by the way he mumbles stuff out all day plus in the bed at nite (suppositly he talks in his sleep). he deny his talking under his breath but one of these days i'm gonna record his a** with my new phone! what should I do dc family? I know the stress from this currently going on in my home is contributing to some of my recent health problems like frequent headaches, upset stomach, heavyness in my limbs as well as some aches in my upper chest and shoulder area. it also doesn't help that I work 7 days a wk! sleep is almost non existant!!
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