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melaniebecerra
By melaniebecerra Latest Reply 2011-07-12 09:14:16 -0500
Started 2011-07-09 00:43:02 -0500

HERE IS AN UPDATE ON MY SITUATION I WANT TO SHARE WITH MY FRIENDS ON HERE…GOOD NEWS: I WENT TO EYEDOCTOR AND HAD MY LASER SURGERY FOR MY RIGHT EYE THIS MORNING ALTHOUGH NOT DONE YET I WENT FROM 20/160 VISION TO 20/70 VISION :) BEFORE THE SURGERY, NEXT WEEK IS EYE NUMBER 2, IT WAS WEIRD WITH ALL THOSE DIFFERENT COLORS I SEEN I THOUGHT I WAS HALLUCINATING LOL…
BAD NEWS: HAD TO GO TO THE ER ON WEDNESDAY REALLY PUFFED UP EDEMA WITH 191 OVER 99 BLOODPRESSURE, WHILE IN ER DOCTORS DID ULTRASOUND AND FOUND OUT THAT THE BABY DIED AT 6 WEEKS :( HAD A MISCARRIAGE TODAY STARTED LAST NIGHT…I WILL HAVE ONE AGAIN SOME DAY JUST WASNT MEANT TO BE THIS TIME IN MY LIFE…GOD HAD HIS REASONS, DAUGHTER IS REALLY UPSET AND I TOLD HER GOD TOOK BABY BACK TO FIX IT…WHEN HE IS DONE HE WILL GIVE IT BACK!! SHE IS 7 AND DOESNT UNDERSTAND…WELL THIS IS MY UPDATE I TOLD YOU GUYS WAS GONE PROVE DOCTOR WRONG AND I DID!!


20 replies

swanslake54
swanslake54 2011-07-11 11:21:45 -0500 Report

Good morning, so sorry to hear about your lost but God is all knowing, we don't always understand his ways, so we have to pray for wisdom and strength to accept his will. May he continue to bless you and I pray that your medical issues improve.

berrykins0
berrykins0 2011-07-11 06:31:11 -0500 Report

sorry to hear about the miscarriage.good hear your eye surgery came out good. hope other eye surgery comes out ok.

DJackwon
DJackwon 2011-07-10 17:21:32 -0500 Report

Terribly sorry for the loss of your baby, In between my 3rd and 4th child I lost one also, in your mind you know there is a reason, but it does not take away the pain of the loss. Your explination to your daughter was inspiring. One year later my 4th child a beautiful daughter was born. May God wrap his loving arms about your precious angel, and give you and your family peace and solice during this time. On the good news? Congrats, take care!

- Debbie -

Mistletoe
Mistletoe 2011-07-09 22:22:29 -0500 Report

I am so sorry for your loss and so difficult to tell a young child about it…May God Bless you and your family during this difficult time in your life…Hugs

fraejo
fraejo 2011-07-09 08:49:57 -0500 Report

So sorry to hear of your lost. I miscarried my 2nd child. I felt the same as you, it just wasn't meant to be - God knows best. A year later I became pregnant. My son is now 23. He was born after my husband died in a car wreck - I didn't even know I was pregnant until after my husband died. My brother told me it was God's way of giving me something else to focus on, life rather than death. I believe his was right.

Marytea
Marytea 2011-07-09 08:44:38 -0500 Report

My prayers are with you and your family. I cannot even imagine the pain you must feel, but rest assured the Lord is there. Great news about your vision though.

cavie2
cavie2 2011-07-09 06:08:22 -0500 Report

Aw Melanie I am sooo sad about the loss of your baby but love the way you explained it to your daughter. The Lord has your baby in his loving arms now and will keep your baby safe. One day I hope you do have another baby, although nothing will replace the one you lost and that child will always be a part of your family. I am sending you a poem

"These are my footprints,
so perfect and so small.
These tiny footprints
never touched the ground at all.
Not one tiny footprint,
for now I have wings.
These tiny footprints were meant
for other things.
You will hear my tiny footprints,
in the patter of the rain.
Gentle drops like angel's tears,
of joy and not from pain.
You will see my tiny footprints,
in each butterflies' lazy dance.
I'll let you know I'm with you,
if you just give me the chance.
You will see my tiny footprints,
in the rustle of the leaves.
I will whisper names into the wind,
and call each one that grieves.
Most of all, these tiny footprints,
are found on Mommy and Daddy's hearts.
'Cause even though I'm gone now,
We'll never truly part."

melaniebecerra
melaniebecerra 2011-07-09 22:56:14 -0500 Report

wow thank you all for your responses and what a beautiful poem that is :) even though i cried i know they all waiting for me up there each one of my lost children one day will see them again thanks everyone